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    Thumbs up Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    What are some examples of Indirect Approach.
    Tips in doing them? Thanks

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    Default Re: Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    Here's a list of neg openers that Tyrone and I put together. Most of his can be adapted anywhere and most of mine are situation-specific.

    http://www.puaforums.com/pua-openers...yrone1991.html

    Generally a good indirect opener will start a conversation without her having the slightest suspicion that you're interested - that's why I like a good neg opener to approach
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    Default Re: Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    Autismus definition is right, although unless you're hitting on some 9's and up, you don't necessarily want to open right with a neg.

    But yes, indirect openers are openers that don't show interest in them off the bat, they're things that could be legitimate conversation

    Generally, opinion openers are the biggest indirect opener, anything you want a legitimate opinion on
    "Hey girls, who lies more, guys or girls?"
    or if you have any legitimate questions "OK, how the heck am I actually supposed to wear this scarf?"

    Any actual debate you and your freinds are having, ask the people around you. It shows you're social and you can weigh in on all the opinions.
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    Default Re: Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    I'm going to take part of that intro back. I checked that list of negs and they're pretty good. It's more of just teasing, which I do seperate from negs. Negs go more under the radar to deliver an insult, teasing is up front and lighthearted, but still seperates you from the rest of the guys hitting on them. Good list
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    Default Re: Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    I don't really see the appeal of indirect approaches. Is the idea that they help pick up girls who won't go for regular pick ups?

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    Default Re: Indirect approach EXAMPLES

    Your opener is just that - an opener

    You can walk up and tell a girl she's hot (direct approach), and they'll most likely shoot you down unless she's already pre-disposed to be interested in you at which point your opener doesn't matter at all

    You can ask an opinion question to get them talking, then move on to more interesting topics of your choice

    When you walk up to a girl the first thing she wonders is - why is he talking to me? If you don't tell her, she'll assume your hitting on her and put up her Bitch Shield, this makes pickup difficult

    An indirect opener tells her oh - he wants some advice or whatever, ok I'll talk to him.

    It's just meant to get your foot into a conversation, from there you can take it where you want

    The other advantage - girls have opinions and they want to give them, so they're more receptive to starting a conversation like this
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