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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Quick qn: isn't disqualifiers a one-way ticket to the "friendzone" (or acquaintencezone)?

    disqualify --> no longer interest her sexually

    I've had this happen before when I DQ to break down her shield (I said she was too young for me, which is true)... and instant gay-friend-zone.
    Or should I only do this when I've built up enough interest?

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Quote Originally Posted by smallrobot View Post
    I've had this happen before when I DQ to break down her shield (I said she was too young for me, which is true)... and instant gay-friend-zone.
    Or should I only do this when I've built up enough interest?
    Well there's some timing involved...If you said your too young for me and then spent the next few weeks as friends you've missed the power of the strategy. If you are on a date you might casually drop in something about her being too young to test her reaction or to disqualify yourself from her. Then later in the night you of course kiss her. During the evening she might try prove age is not an issue and in fact she might like a more mature guy. The ultimate is when you are in a relationship but another girl is flirting with you. You say 'Yeah I have a girlfriend'...how many girls will walk away at that moment? Many will stay...many will still want you...many will want you more. The point is not to disqualify them completely, it's just to make yourself more of a 'rarity'. People want what they can't have...but you don't make yourself absolutely impossible to have.

    You said yourself it is true she is too young for you - well theres the problem. Is she really too young? Is she underage? Otherwise no girl is too young except in your own minds. So you would say 'maybe you're too young for me...' and gauge her reaction. How does she respond? her response is important to observe. Then you kiss her later. If she really was too young for you she would not have a shield up and you would know better than to have been gay friendzoned! If truly she is too young you would not date her or care in the first place. You use the qualifier as a strategy. You also dont need to wait to develop interest...you can say it as soon as you meet someone. You're in a bar and you meet a girl...she says she's 18 and your 35...you might say 'oh I better be careful of you...your ID might be fake...I dont want to get to know a girl who might get thrown out of here'. You can use it whenever you like..the point is to turn the tables.

    If you get nowhere with girls constantly being friendzoned a real easy remedy is to friendzone them first. Say things like 'hey your a really nice girl, we could be good friends' or if a girl asks you out say 'yeah that would be good...as friends of course'. Girls go bonkers at that stuff and can't help but chase.

    You can use disqualifiers as soon as you meet someone or in the middle of a 10 year LTR. The power is always there.

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Quote Originally Posted by smallrobot View Post
    Quick qn: isn't disqualifiers a one-way ticket to the "friendzone" (or acquaintencezone)?

    disqualify --> no longer interest her sexually

    I've had this happen before when I DQ to break down her shield (I said she was too young for me, which is true)... and instant gay-friend-zone.
    Or should I only do this when I've built up enough interest?

    You want to be giving her some mixed signals. If you disqualify AND IOD then you will lose interest., You should still be flirting with her but telling her it won't happen

    This avoids her putting YOU in friend zone and let's you control the frame and the course of the flirting. She will want your attention back
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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Very nice indeed but what about texting? My ex is with another man and is friendzoning me plus she doesn't want to meet me because of it so can we use some kind of technique in texting only? It lacks the physical touch but there's nothing i can do about it

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    You aren't going to win your ex back by text, that's a whole other topic. You gotta be fun and interesting and get her to meet you once or twice first

    Read this RB - so you want your ex back

    And for text advice, TMal has you covered http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...al-bible.html#
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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    I see thanks but there's been a little mistake on my part and what i wanted to say is chatting instead of texting (I deleted her number a year ago) so now i can only contact her through skype . Well I guess it will have the same or a similar effect as the texting .
    The problem is we're in different countries and I can't run into her so I need her permission to visit but she still doesn't let me because it feels ''wrong'' since she has a new man. Thanks for the links though I appreciate it.

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Just stumbled upon this brilliant thread. Can you use disqualifires through text, or must they been done in person? It seems like it may come off as a little try hard through text, but that could just be me over thinking. On second thought, it seems like it should be fine. Anyway, some input would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    You certainly can use over text, just use the simpler teases,

    "omg you're way too goody goody for me"

    Or something like that.

    You can't really open a text with one but you can certainly respond with them where appropriate
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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    Awesome, thanks brother! I get it and will be incorporating this into my game. Although, I tend to do it naturally. Knowing why will better the timing and effectiveness.

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    Default Re: RB - disqualifier guide

    I would think just saying something like "you would make a good friend" would be enough much of the time to get her interested and intrigued. If you want to be a bit edgier you could add "but anything more than that and you'd probably drive me crazy." This would probably increase the effectiveness much of the time of the previous statement. You would say this last part with a smile. The fact that you are approaching the woman means you are interested in her at least somewhat. Hot women in particular tend to think every guy wants them so creating that barrier signals to her brain that you are a challenge and not like every other AFC out there who is eager to get in her panties at the drop of a hat.


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