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    Default Approaching questions

    Ok. So the other day i was at a starbucks studying for a big test i got coming up(its actually a really good place to study). But anyways in walks this very good looking girl HB9 at least. I'm fairly new to this game thing and i wanted to approach but i just completely froze, and couldn't do it. What tips do you guys have for this and how should i approach the approach?

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    Default Re: Approaching questions

    Quote Originally Posted by Zimmboys View Post
    Ok. So the other day i was at a starbucks studying for a big test i got coming up(its actually a really good place to study). But anyways in walks this very good looking girl HB9 at least. I'm fairly new to this game thing and i wanted to approach but i just completely froze, and couldn't do it. What tips do you guys have for this and how should i approach the approach?
    Hey Zimmboys, here's a few things

    - Lower the HB9 intimidation factor - by looking for flaws: wierd ears, big nose, small nose, thigh flaws, looks kinda b1tchy, (if you can see any physical flaws start assuming she has personality flaws - this will help your inner-game to frame yourself as the prize)
    - Don't think - sometimes it helps to THINK "well if I approach and get shot down, it's better than not approaching at all and kicking myself later" - after that one thought though, it's time to not think and just DO!
    A Few Ways I like to Open through aa
    - Open with a situational neg (it's a great way to help AA)
    - Open with like Sasha Daygame (super direct - see him on youtube)
    - Open someone adjacent and then notice her (bringing her into the interaction, then transitioning your focus to her - usually best if done with a neg)

    Hoep this helps!
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    Default Re: Approaching questions

    Plain and simple - don't think, just do.

    Follow the three second rule. Once you see the girl, you have three seconds to approach her. This will stop you from over thinking, which is your biggest downfall. Pick something about her to open with and just go.
    Personally, I'm not big on memorized material, so I try and stay away from it if at all possible because I feel like it's less sincere and easier to see through. So always try and open with something about her.

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    Default Re: Approaching questions

    The 3 second rule is great if you're sure she's alone. Sometimes you may have you may need a bit of time/planning to size her up. But basically the trick is to cook up something natural so you can flow from there

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    Default Re: Approaching questions

    I respectfully disagree BrownKnight, you want to approach as soon as possible. Trying to plan/size her up will cause you to overthink the situation, which is not what you want. You want things to be natural and flow, not make is seem you're reciting canned material.
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    Default Re: Approaching questions

    @KnightTurner, accepted, you approach ASAP and it takes practice. I think one of main thing about the 3 second rule is for her not to feel stalked/unsafe. The rule doesn't apply in all situations and I think it is dependent on proximity. One other thing I might suggest in boosting confidence is approach like u were going to speak with
    a guy. What would you say to 2 girls in a club?
    My main problem is the initial start. I do flow well and know IOIs and can work my way till the end


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