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    Konstantin is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Girl I met today....need help understanding where i went wrong!

    So i met this girl while studying for midterms today and at first she was giving me lots of IOIs and it was going well, so I baited her with playing the cube. So we decided to go for lunch with a large group and took 2 cars. At the last second she turns and goes towards the other car where one of her guy friends was there. The other car ended up getting lost and went somewhere else to eat, when we met again by our table I negged her for ditching out and getting lost so I told her to put her number in my phone in case she decides to get lost again so we can meet up at the right spot. She complies and I started gaming her again but she was barely responding to my questions and not re-engaging the conversation, but also she started giving tons of IOIs to her guy friend who was a total AFC and didn't pick up on them.
    In the end when we were leaving she asked him if he could give her a ride home and they left together.

    This girl is the artsy/hipster type and I would like to know how to game her better. Or should I just find a new target?

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    Default Re: Girl I met today....need help understanding where i went wrong!

    Hipsters like witty if you can go back in forth with them it should be no problem.

    So dude I wanna say ease off the negs just a bit! work on some hipster dialogue that you can use in a conversation with her! Music, art and nature are always good sticking points for the average hipster.

    Keep at it for a bit longer than if you feel like there isn't anything happening for you then move on and work game on other women(pre-selection) dont completely shut her out but don't give her too much attention either!

    Good luck bud
    Last edited by pua_wannabe; 09-29-2012 at 09:29 PM. Reason: spacing
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Girl I met today....need help understanding where i went wrong!

    Couple of things...

    ioi's aren't worth waiting for. Compliance Tests are better because you're expediting the process in a way you can control.

    the cube isn't necessarily something I'd do during an opener. Your choice. But it's kind of a hit or miss.

    And the biggest thing....I wasn't there, but if enough comfort was built, I 100% GUARANTEE she would've ridden in YOUR car as opposed to that other dude's.

    The group thing was also a problem because even if your time with her goes great, what's the point of going on a date when you can't Isolate? 1-on-1 first dates only.


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