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    Default She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    OK guys help me out.

    We've all have been there. We work or go to school with HB's. We see HB'S around during the day all over the place. Some of them we get to know because we see them in passing at said places. Sometimes, maybe without thinking, we comment on something they are wearing. Not in a flirty way, but maybe we just noticed something about their clothes...

    "Hey, isn't that blouse too low cut for an office?"

    "The color of your pants is too bright!"

    "You have a tiny peice of paper stuck to your skirt."

    ... and this leads to her saying ...

    "Well, if it bothers you, stop looking at my butt!"

    "Sorry, I didn't know you were checking me out!"

    "Oooh, so you were looking at my chest, huh?"

    Any thoughts on this situation? I'm feeling that when they accuse you of this, they are really looking for validation .... that hey want you to verbalize the attraction. So maybe a neg would be approriate.

    But I'm curious how to turn up the attraction in this area. I think it can be a good opportunity to increase attraction, but I'm not sure. I feel it's an opening to excalate but I'm not satisfied with the ways I've handled it. I think faster than I talk so I usually say the initial comment before I'm prepared for her comeback.

    What I have found that works is negging her nonchalantly. "Yeah... but seriously, the weird color does not add anything good!"

    Or saying in a cocky way "AND???" as if it's no big deal.

    Any comebacks you guys use are greatly appreciated!
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    "Well, if it bothers you, stop looking at my butt!"

    I said your pants, not your butt. Where is your mind?

    "Sorry, I didn't know you were checking me out!"

    I am a man. What else would you expect?

    "Oooh, so you were looking at my chest, huh?"

    Obviously.
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    If a girl accuses me of "eyeing her up / checking her out" I'll use a couple different responses, depending on the situation.

    "Well YEAH I was checking you out! You look stunning in that ensemble."

    OR

    "Checking you out? Are you flirting with me? It's cool I like that!"

    or

    "Actually, I was trying to figure out if that's a new style, or a retro comeback. Either way you caught my eye."

    or

    "No... I just thought for a minute that it looked like you had something stuck to you. But I realize now it was just a shadow. By the way, that outfit is killer! You've got an eye for fashion."

    Things like that can show interest without neediness... especially if you make your exit immediately after. (And let her chase YOU down to talk some more)


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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Great stuff guys! I'm digging the way your lines crank up the Tension. It's tough for me finding the balance between being cocky, acknowledging what you were doing, and not come off as needy.

    I guess it's like I've read alot... PUA make no apologies for being a man lol!
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Puas make no apologies for being a man. Couldn't have said it better, either play with it or own it

    Cody and Tmal (I've given up on writing your whole name Tmal lol) both offer some great teases

    Only other one I can think of - (funny look) "seriously? All you girls think about is one thing"
    I love turning the tables on them (disqualifying), they never see it coming
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Puas make no apologies for being a man. Couldn't have said it better, either play with it or own it

    Cody and Tmal (I've given up on writing your whole name Tmal lol) both offer some great teases

    Only other one I can think of - (funny look) "seriously? All you girls think about is one thing"
    I love turning the tables on them (disqualifying), they never see it coming
    Perfect timing with the "name shortening" comment.
    I forgot I requested to have it changed a while ago... but it took effect late last night/early this morning.
    So "T-Mal" is correct now. LOL!

    BTW- *Useless trivia factoid*

    tmalonetn actually stood for: "T-mal 1 -Tennessee"
    (I had to spell out the word "one" because the number 1 looked like the lowercase letter L... and at a quick glance could be read as the word "mall".)

    Yeah... I over-think things occasionally. hahaha!


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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    I always thought it was like T. Malone. First initial, last name, and you were some sort of mob leader or something. Anyway, I appreciate the ease on us writing your name :P
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Yeah i read RB's comment here and then saw u changed it. I thought u took his comment hard or something lol.
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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Cool...the turning it around comments are great....(problem with the checkout at work, depending where you work, is the sexual harassment issue that we would all want to avoid obviously...such a fine line now adays)...so the turnaround or "new style" comments are great and keep things nice.

    In open settings (e.g., bars, etc.) the direct comebacks are excellent.

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    Default Re: She Accuses You of Checking Her Out

    Thanks Flynn... I forgot to mention that part about harassment lol.

    Like I said initially, these are girls you kind of know already. They should already be comfortable with you or at least know your sense of humor. But caution is always warranted of course.
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