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Thread: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

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    Default 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    I went to a concert on Saturday and this 32 year old girl approached me. She initiated the conversation, complimented my eyes and said I was good looking. She gave me her number (without me asking) and I left...mostly from fear that it'd make things awkward. I texted her 2 days later, but I realized I barely know how to talk to girls my own age, let alone one 10+ years older than me. Any advice?

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    older women fall into as many catagories as younger ones. at 32 she wasn't texting in high school so for her she most likely doesn't want to text you like she's back in it. take it old fashioned. pick up the phone and call her. Also, unless you are great at gaming keeps the tricks to yourself. with experience comes a great ability to spot bull shit. so don't try it. all this of course if she is actually interested in more than just getting a younger stud in bed. she will most likely have her career set up at this point, be less into going all into things like certain music, bands, etc. the older you get the more well rounded you hopefully become. with lots of hobbies to keep you from getting bored with the same one or two things that have kept you entertained for the last few years. make her laugh and good luck

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    You probably should've stayed. If she doesn't seem responsive then it's because she wanted to have fun THAT NIGHT and you walked away. No offense, but I don't know too many 30+ year old women openly wanting to date someone below 25. She is going to want to hide you lol. Next time don't be afraid to just go for it. No one says you have to do something another night if you already have the opportunity.

    Unless she wanted your kidney or ship you to china for labor. Then be cautious. ( I watch too many movies)
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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    If she only wanted me that one night, why did she give me her number without me asking for it? I'd say she wants me everynight, but I'm concieted lol. I have no game though, only been in 1 relationship that lasted more than 2 weeks.

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    She may still want to keep you a little hidden secret. A 32 year old man would love to get with a 19 year old girl for the same reasons she probably wants you. Despite inexperience, you are young and that's attractive to a lot of people. CALL her and set up a date. Just don't be surprised if she tries to keep you as her closet FB. The 32 year old man would brag to all his friends about his 19 year old gf, the woman on the other hand wants to keep her reputation and getting with a younger man makes her look like she only cares about bed time and nothing else. She may only watch out for number 1, but you won't know what she wants until you call her up and find out.

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    It's actually the number to the room she was staying in, you just didn't look at it closely lol.

    No, but seriously give her a call and gauge where she is at. If she seems unreceptive then it's probably because she was looking for a good time (which is my best guess) and now she is sober lol. Otherwise set up a date.
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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    i personally don't think she was looking for more than a casual relationship/ONS, even so you could just propose to "watch a movie", if she flakes well, what Batman said (y)

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    Quote Originally Posted by sinkalos View Post
    She may still want to keep you a little hidden secret.
    That's also what I think.

    Tell us, IAmMarine, did she give you her number in front of other people or was it done when you two were isolated?

    If it was done in stealth mode it means she wants to get you in secret. Be careful though, because even if you think she's just into a one night because of the age difference, you could end up with a girl who wants more.

    Also, some women hitting on younger folks are sometimes emotionally immature. I'm just saying this because that's what happened to me last time I slept with an older woman. After the one-night-stand she started to get a little intense, almost stalker-ish, like if we had shared something special... That being said, have fun!

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    Congrats. This could be really good for you. Older women mostlikely are settled and they know what they want. It should be not so hard to find an issue to talk about. Go out with her, have dinner together, talk and you will see its a more relaxing dating then with younger women.

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    Default Re: 19, Need help with 32 yr old..No idea what to do....

    Go direct with her and call her.She is 32 is hopefully she knows whats she wants !


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