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Thread: warm approaches pros and cons

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    Lightbulb warm approaches pros and cons

    often as pua's we tend to focus mainly on the cold approach, though it is important for getting her number right away, the warm approach is nessisary if you ever want to see her again. by definition a warm approach is approaching someone you've already been aquainted with. wheather it be that she's in one of your college classes or if you've met her at a club or you knw her from highschool. so what makes a warm approach any better than a cold one? lets find out,
    • "warm" girls generally are more receptive to your flirting because they are familiar with you wich brings me to my next point
    • familiarity, girls who are more familiar with you will feel more comfortable talking to you
    • "running" jokes- you can reference jokes you have used in the past with them
    • anchored feelings- you can quickly Anchor a feeling of excitement to see you (however this is also a con)
    • you can often AMOG the other guys who are talking to her just because you know her better
    • in addition you can make "warm approaches on girls you haven't met by being introduced by a mutual friend
    however there are some cons
    • if you didn't establish attraction on your first approach, it will be harder on your warm one
    • if you have anchored feelings of distrust then don't expect her to feel comfortable
    • if you have been introduced by a mutual friend, that friend can amog you because of his familiarity with her
    • if you don't see her for a long time after your initial contact, don't expect her to remember you very well
    • she may have already disqualified you
    • she will be biased towards you, she has already decided weather or not she likes you
    • you may have already been friendzoned
    these are just some good and bad points about warm approaches, feel free to add anything you think i may have left out
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    Default Re: warm approaches pros and cons

    This is good, I will add one or two things.

    First, If you say hi to a girl, and leave the set with something like - hey I gotta get back to my friends but I'll come talk to you again in a bit - then when you talk later it is warm. I've been doing this alot recently, building rapport and moving on to other sets, works great with me because I always have sets nearby I've talked to and can return to at any point

    Also, a warm opener is any where you have acknowledged each other. I had a post on this, think of it like turning a cold approach into a warm one

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...-approach.html
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