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    Default I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    Alright guys, so I have recently met some girls at parties over the past 3 weeks and I have tried to be cocky funny but it just doesn't work for me...I am normally a nice guy and just when a girl looks at me they just see a "nice guy."

    I have tried to be cocky funny and tried be the alpha male by giving demands and not agreeing with the HB's. But I get a lot of responses like "ohh your soooooo funny" (them saying that sarcastically after I teased them. But they just see me as a nice guy making a joke, not a cocky alpha male.

    So, I just don't think I am cocky funny, I can't be. All my friends say i have a monotone voice and that I am just a nice guy that they will like never want to fight...

    What should I do now? Suggestions?

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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    you could change your appearence and give a badboy/mystery guy style a go.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    you could change your appearence and give a badboy/mystery guy style a go.
    but you will need the attitude to go with it, you can't dress like a bad boy and talk like an AFC. don't be cocky funny if you can't but be confident
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    yeah im a strong believer of that too, but most people suggested a rock star attitude or something compared to mine as a experienced street kid, so i thought i was proven wrong.

    theres also fake it until you make it lol.

    Another suggestion, Find your strengths and use it to your advantage, like i use my motorbike, tattoo's coperate wear, hair cut, scars and extreme confidence against pretentious males and sexy females so i would thionk i have the bad boy attitude, plus i have a shit load of experience behind me. thats just an example, you should do the same, mabie read robert green art of seduction, there are like 12 different types of seducers (sort of like star signs) I am the Charmer/Dandy. that will discribe what you are like and then you can further your inner/outer game on the basis of that.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    I had a similar problem for a long time.

    You know how in Harry Potter he has to think of a really happy thought to make a patronus against dementors... - it's kinda like that.

    A Pivot once told me, before I got into PU "Girls are attracted to men who are better than them. So act like you're better than them. It doesn't matter why."

    It sounds kinda d1ckish (but cocky/funny has to be kinda d1ck ish ) Find one strength of yours that you can be your claim to superiority over anyone (AMOGs, other guys, Targets, Obstacles, whomever). Then use this thought to frame yourself as "better than" them - still be playful and friendly - but this might correct for the lack of cockiness to accompany your funny - as if you're the superior and your target (or AMOG) is there for your amusement.
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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    tyrone, how exactly could I use my haircut, my car, and that i always am clean (showered and smell good)? those are the strengths I can think of...

    autismus, how do i act like i am better than these girls? do i say certain things?

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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    Read juggler, "how to meet and connect with women"

    Much different and more subtle style, don't have to be cocky funny, just interesting, and he guides oh through it well

    It sounds like you would really connect with him
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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    you use the object etc like your hair cut to display yourself, some haircuts make you look rich, some look sporty, some look thuggish, some look innocent same with car, my hair cut is sporty/thuggish and my bike represents - thrill, adrenalin, excitement, adventure, badboy so your appearence is just a feature of your style, you cant look innocent and act like a cocky funny guy, you have to create an imagine in there mind. they will remeber certain fatures of you not everything you say, i will release a thread next week (very detailed about body language) this should help alot of males out if they want to match there appearence with there confidence
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post

    autismus, how do i act like i am better than these girls? do i say certain things?
    It's not about what you say or even how you say it, it's about how you think of yourself. Its inner game. Its about having one self-attribute you can know about yourself and know that (on this one attribute) there is not any person in the place that isn't below you. Its framing your inner game that you think of value in terms that place you at the top.

    This helps you to react in a way that is consistent with an abundance Mindset.

    That's kinda rambly... I'll probably think of a better explanation like as soon as I post this lol
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    Default Re: I am NOT cocky funny...other options?

    I'll probably think of a better explanation like as soon as I post this lol

    hahahah Autismus, thats the story of my life
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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