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    Zoltan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default A 'boyfriend' in the way, but I still might go for it

    Okay so I was hoping to get some advice about how I should be going about this:

    I met this girl, absolutely wonderful. I didn't really even use routines or lines, I used a few negs, but that was all (actually some natural game!) - I was just my 'cocky funny' self. Anyhow, she's great - we are on the same equestrian team together. We laughed together, had fun, made fun of each other a bit, etc, and we obviously have at least one thing in common (plus music which I find to be important) and have some similar friends. But - she has a boyfriend. She has had one for a fair few months, they broke up about a month ago for a few weeks, but got back together.

    Here's the deal - if she was happy and he was a good guy, I'd leave it alone, but our mutual friends say he is pretty nasty to everyone (women) except her, so not necessarily a great guy.
    Knowing this, my conscience is lower and I'm more willing to interfere, before I am put in the friend zone and have that issue.

    Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated,
    As always gentlemen,
    Zoltan Vvolf

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    Default Re: A 'boyfriend' in the way, but I still might go for it

    If i were you, i would go for it, the big question is how.
    obviously their relationship is bad, at least it was at a point, and shes probably the type that doesnt want to be alone, considering shes a girl aha, so shes probably with him until she finds a replacement (you). now we just need to figure out how to evolve the relationship that you already have. should be relatively easy since you have naturally gamed her. Im assuming that you would like to keep doing so, so here is what i would do.
    continue your relationship the way you have for two, three days maximum, you never know, when she sees that there is somebody better out there she might break up with her boyfriend on her own. while you continue, make it very clear you dont want to be in the friend zone, dont change the way your treating her at all, if she does like you, its more than likely because of that. however, you want to show her that you like her without coming out and saying it. dont even look at any other girls while your around her, maybe game her lightly and jokingly, comment on her appearance, and above all, show that your a better guy than her bf. shouldnt be too difficult, just be friendly to everybody when your with her, and be more than friendly to her. i know im being vague, but i dont know enough about her or her bf to be able to be more distinct. hope this helps
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Dreamchaser is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A 'boyfriend' in the way, but I still might go for it

    Now I am new to the pua forum and the game in general. But if I were in your shoes, I would probably start with the "bf destroyer" technique. Start talking about how great you imagine her bf to be. Build him up to a level that you know he can't meet. She will correct you in saying he's not that great at.... Key on to what her answer is, and go from there. I am not really the best at explaining it especially through text. But you should check out the "bf destroyer technique" on here, cause I think it might work for you.

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    Zoltan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: A 'boyfriend' in the way, but I still might go for it

    Thank you both,

    I have looked at the BFD, Dreamchaser, and it is possible that it would work, especially if I have support from friends etc and I don't risk that alienation. If I am successful with that - the question is how do I prevent myself from being a short-term rebound? (assuming I'd get that far haha - I know wrong way to think about this).

    Anyway, I see her this afternoon at riding and tomorrow, so I'll probably test the waters and see how it goes. Thanks again guys,
    As always gentlemen,
    Zoltan Vvolf

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    Default Re: A 'boyfriend' in the way, but I still might go for it

    Nothing should stop you, why should it? I went wrong in a situation like this and when the girl became single she didn't want to know. Go for it.


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