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    Default I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    hey everyone so here is my story...
    there this girl i met by getting her number and we started texting it seemed well i like her alot shes gorgeous but i think she likes me as a friend.once we had a fight and she told me she didnt like me the way i like her..yea she did!

    but i ddnt give up we stopped talking for a while till she texted me back and we started talking again..at that time i was in lebanon and shes in saudi arabia.

    after a while she disapeared we lost contact again for like 2 month at this time i came back to saudi arabia found her number and called her and we started talking again.

    everything is going well so far but i always have the fear we will go threw what happened before.. now her birthday is on the 18th of october i thought this would be a great occasion to ask her out officially but i need ideas wild ideas to get to her i want to make her like a proposal not for marriage at least not right away just to be my girlfriend

    i want to buy her and do her something but not like buy her
    expensive gifts since shes not my girlfriend yet but money is not a problem i would spend 1000 dollars on a beautiful date with her such as a restaurant and something fun rather than spend a 100 dollars a on jewelry i don't want her to think am easy buying her expensive gifts right away and i dont want her to think am cheap to buy her stuff.
    please i need crazy ideas to ask her out make her know that shes special person not just to me but the whole world

    note: this girl is beautiful stylish crazy and fun so i don't need some cliche ideas i need wild ones and another thing were in saudi arabia so going out on dates and such stuff is hard but yet not impossible!!

    my ideas so far are throwing flowers all over her house but still its not easy. ask her out to a beautiful restaurant and buying her a star. i know the star thing is a scam but yet its a beautiful gesture girls love it and it gives a symbol like there is always a star for her in the skies something like that.

    i would really appreciate your help and thank you so much!!

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    From your story it sounds like she has the upperhand in the whole interaction and throwing flowers allover her house will be like tying a huge balloon on her- she'll have even more upperhand hence seeing you as low value and desperate..im guessing arabian girls r feminine so i'd recommend going for a boat ride or at the beach and get 'dirty' there if possible..But game her really and dont be cheesy... Best of luck

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    looks like you have realy bad one-itis, the solution to your problem is to move on!!!! she has already friendzoned you, and the only way to get the upper hand on her is to go nc and date other wemon! she could then see you as being more alpha than you have portrayed yourself to be, (though its pretty unlikely you will ever un-friendzone her) take a hint and find other wemon! until you can see her as just another girl, she will always have the upper hand on you and you will just be validation for her ego

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    No ofense to the other Pua's that gave you advice the're right about you beeing in the friendzone and u having oneitis but if you want her you should ask me. She won't go out on a date with you and you said it yourself, going on dates is very hard in the ksa.
    A couple of questions b4 we start:
    -you are not a pua you are just a normal guy that wants a girl right?
    -Are there any puas in saudi arabia?
    Note:This might seem irrelevant now but still answer
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    If by pua u mean a pick up artist then no! And I don't think there are any here in saudi arabia...

    Mayb I am in the freind zone but she's confusing me too like when she told me I don't like u the way u do we stopped talking for like a month and she started texting me am sory I don't want u out of my life and I miss u a lot...she's driving me crazy!!!

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    in my opinion, meteora is dead right, but since we all know you cant just move on, cuz weve all been there, what i would do is Freeze Out until after her birthday, maybe a couple weeks after, because on the large chance this goes wrong, you dont wanna fark up her birthday. so freeze out until a couple weeks after her birthday, reconnect but be a lot more alpha than you wanna be, i know its hard but they are right, its gotta be done. you can be alpha and still be the nice guy she wants to be with, but shes not gonna wanna be with you after your extravagent and romantic date that she doesnt want. she might want it when she sees your more alpha, but you will have to see
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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    lol dude just relax... if she is texting you saying that she needs you in her life then she either needs attention or she is just trying to occupy her time... you gave away the game too early by letting her know that you like her like that(next time try to keep up the mystery)... although you seem to like this girl alot just look at it this way it might help to salvage the situation->>> you need to sit back a bit, flirt over the phone(or in real life if you get to see her, not a date tho) and try get her to do the chasing, making you the prize that she needs and not just want to have around. best of luck

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    First thing u need to know I never asked her out so am not gona give up without even trying...

    So I was thinking if I do something special to her make her feel she is a special person then y not and I know she deserve it atleast if she said no I won't regret one day not asking her out and showing her how much she means to me...

    As for being the alpha wat exactly do u mean by that how should I respond or any tips

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    dude, Freeze Out doesnt mean give up, this is honestly your best shot at getting her. i know when you love a girl your first instinct is to show her and make her feel loved, and i know it sucks, and its hard to hear but it never works
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default re: I need crazy ideas to ask this girl out

    pretty much just dont show your feelings so much, demonstrate higher value, not the opposite like we both know you really want to. act like you dont care, act like she doesnt mean as much to you as she actually does. the extravagant and romantic is just going to scare her away. i honestly think shes giving you the run around, by just keeping you on her hook, but by being more alpha you can flip that around however you want
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