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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    I agree with the comments made so far to some level, however I don't think the art of picking up a girl comes down to how well you grind a girl. Obviously theres the approaches which people hjave already mentioned, a big smile and radiating confidence however if I want to #-close a girl or more, I need to be able to quickly move her off the dancefloor and into an area where we can talk. I also achknowledge that the steps change as well, in the sense that Kino will be raised significantly already from dancing. How long should you dance for before moving locations? How can you create that level of trust to the point where she is happy to stop dancing with her friends around and to move to a different location with you? Finally, how can you neg her and Disarm her friends while competing with loud music and dancing?

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Solid tips fellas! I'll go try this stuff out
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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    i disagree with pokerbaby, respectfully of course, dance moves arent what get you girls, they are what make you look like youve got too much time on your hands, and it looks kinda stupid. you can play the silly part and try getting the girl to laugh with it but thats going into rapport without attraction. grinding is what build attraction, not sweet moves lmao. pretty much just grind on her, go don when she does, but when she moves left, you move right. if she dips low, remember your an alpha and dip a little but not much, let her do the work, keep your hands on her hands and hips, put them in her pockets every once in a while, but above all, dont do it too long. get her off the floor ASAP. which im sure y
    Hmm I respectfully disagree. Though I admit, you aren't the first person to tell me that dancing isn't any good for picking up.

    But my experience has been that it's really good. Not trying to brag, but when I dance, mostly everyone in the club, guys and girls stop and stare and watch me. A truely great form of dhv.

    Once I start in, within 10 minutes I am surrounded by girls. Can't be coincidence. Multiple hot girls. I often have girls offer to buy me drinks. Not to mention they "bump" or push me. I even had one HB 9 come up to me and punch me in the stomach. Hard too! I was winded. Not sure why. My friend said it was because she expected me to grind her and I was being too "hard to get". I'm still not the best at game.

    Not to mention it helps my own confidence which is a good thing. Of course anything could help a guy's confidence. Dressing well. Having a nice car etc. But this is what helps get me going. So that alone is worth something. I don't think any guy can be a good dancer and not feel confident.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Input I've picked up from women who go out to dance is they generally don't like being grinded on that much UNLESS they connect with a guy who's dancing first, grinding later when time calls for it. Sure theres the ones who enjoy or don't mind the grinding.

    I can't dance for crap. I was born without rhythm. hahha. However when I get enough liquid courage in me and a don't care what you think mentality, dancing (attempting to) is fun and gains attention. Even goofy dancing shows your fun and not afraid to just do it. If your focusing too much on the women and not the music, youl be out of sync and squeezed out of the girl circle. You know the type: 2 or 3 women dancing together not letting you in unless you dance your way in. Not grind.

    My 02 cents.

    Today I will take advantage of the opportunities presented to me.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    I usually just go amd dance and dont care wat peeps think and its
    Worked for me. Try having a tie or maybe a scarf on. I had a girl pull me
    By my tie and dance on me. Just saying ;D lol

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Quote Originally Posted by Gannicus View Post
    It seems to be a consistant issue for me in England. Whenever I walk into a club, I see most of the HBs in the middle of the dancefloor, in what seems to be an unapproachable position. I know that there will be answers on how to counter this and would greatly appreicate any advice. Also, to take into consideration is the loud music and compacted clusters of people left, right and centre. Is it perhaps not the best idea to approach a girl surrounded by other groups of people who aren't actually part of the set she is in?

    Thank you in advance,
    It seems that most of you that are having success in the club scene may not understand the mechanism at play. Why does dancing work in the first place? Why do girls flock, why did chick punch my man in the stomach? I think this post will help. The first post is technique the second post is the execution.


    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...loud-talk.html

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...l-f-close.html

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    My advice is, test different things, so what if one girl doesn't like the grind, there's enough girls in the club to try all of the suggestions on, at least once ha! I try to steer clear of the dance floor unless I get asked to dance, start at the bar and approach there, after that nail it with some Kino on the dance floor and after a song or two either x-close or #-close... Kill it mate, enjoy your night.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    I think the dance floor is a good way to meet women and the easiest, BUT I have trouble with the approach, ive tried the "ask them" before and it generally doesnt work.

    ive also tried the just going on the floor and dancing, BUT im never sure when/how to make the move in with a girl. So what you guys are saying is if you are dancing and a girl comes nearbye, just start grinding with her? or grab her hand and start dancing?

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    but when she moves left, you move right. if she dips low, remember your an alpha and dip a little but not much, let her do the work, keep your hands on her hands and hips, put them in her pockets every once in a while,
    i'm not gonna lie i'm bad with dance game haha but how come if she goes left you go right? i always thought you followed her moves when u grind?

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Quote Originally Posted by Pokerbaby View Post
    Hmm I respectfully disagree. Though I admit, you aren't the first person to tell me that dancing isn't any good for picking up.

    But my experience has been that it's really good. Not trying to brag, but when I dance, mostly everyone in the club, guys and girls stop and stare and watch me. A truely great form of dhv.

    Once I start in, within 10 minutes I am surrounded by girls. Can't be coincidence. Multiple hot girls. I often have girls offer to buy me drinks. Not to mention they "bump" or push me. I even had one HB 9 come up to me and punch me in the stomach. Hard too! I was winded. Not sure why. My friend said it was because she expected me to grind her and I was being too "hard to get". I'm still not the best at game.

    Not to mention it helps my own confidence which is a good thing. Of course anything could help a guy's confidence. Dressing well. Having a nice car etc. But this is what helps get me going. So that alone is worth something. I don't think any guy can be a good dancer and not feel confident.

    Haha dude you're probably not only a decent dancer but if you get that much attention you gotta be somewhat good looking lol.

    The best times I've danced with girls is basically dance on your own like you don't need anyone to have fun with. Using YouTube to do particular songs helps especially get the attention. More people watch you, a circle forms around you and you just pull a girl in. I first started going out clubbing in Mexico and it made it so much better because communication could only be physical. But coming back to Cali it is a little trickier for me because I don't stand out enough.

    If a girl dances with you face to face grab her hand, pull her in and twirl her. If you're not too sweaty take that hand bring it to the side of your hand, over your shoulders and on to the waist. More times than not she will keep it there.

    Side note I'm only 5'4 so I don't get a lot of attention. My best friend is over 6 foot dark and handsome. He's attracts girls and when groups come in we just start a dance circle. Point to a girl, turn her away, be playful. Come back to her. Some girls don't respond well sometimes. Sadly he doesn't go out anymore because of his girlfriend...

    I've never done this sober. Too much anxiety but liquid courage is my friend sadly.


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