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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    With grinding for me, what seems to work is Push-Pull. I'll grind for a bit, but pull away and start dancing on my own or with her friends, as most girls dance with their friends, talk to her friends, etc.. It messes with her a bit, she'll usually come up to me and pull me back in. If not, I'll pretend that i'm not paying attention to her, walk away a few feet, talk to other girls or her friends, then re-engage her after a few minutes. The key is to not to too overboard on the grinding. I see guys do this and it ends up looking needy and desperate.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    And by grinding, I don't mean the whole animal mating dance that I see a lot of guys try to do. When I see guys going around the dance floor, going behind random women and trying to grind with them, it makes me think of the discovery channel, and a non-alpha animal trying to get to a mate and her rejecting him. A lot of girls find it kinda creepy, and have asked me for advice on how to keep that annoying creepy guy from grinding on them while I'm dancing with them, lol. It takes a little bit of comfort building to get to that level with girls. Most of the girls I go there with I've met away from the dance floor, and they've asked me to go dance with them after talking with them for a bit.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    From my experience, you dance in the crowd and look like you don't care about any of the girls. Make it look like you're there just to dance, and you're having a blast. Time and time again, girls will look over because they see that you're having so much fun, and they're attracted to that. That's when you make your way over.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Gotta say I disagree. In my opinion I think its best to know what you want and show it, be alpha.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    All the girls I've talked to about it find it creepy when a guy comes up behind them and starts to grind. It tends to workout better if you first introduce yourself, give her a quick compliment, then take her hand and spin her a few times. The spinning is important because girls enjoy being spun and guys are not doing it to them at clubs, so this sets you apart. end the spin so that she is in grinding position and she'll generally dance with you. Be sure to go in with a good energy and keep the compliment light, preferably humorous. follow these instructions and you should do ok... Not Great mind you. But ok.. The dance floor really is a trap..

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    New member, honestly speaking and oddly enough I do a better job approaching girls on the dance floor than anywhere else. The hard part for me is knowing whether they are interested or just there to dance. Since your so close to your target, there is immediate Kino opportunities. It's immediate kino before you even exchange names. Confidence and the willingness to have fun can be easily spotted by girls on the dance floor. The 3 second rule still very much applies hope it helps!

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    dance game is very simple when you know how!

    Its not about having killer moves though that helps.

    it is about eye contact!!!!

    what you need is to hit the floor with a group and once your in the group move yourself to the edge of that group. The scout round and try to make eye contact with girls. Once you've done that smile at them in a cheeky way. they will look away. Keep looking if they look back, they are interested.

    move in start dancing!

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Gannicus,

    There are a lot of complicated answers to your questions...

    I worked professionally as a nightclub and Strip Club promoter & VIP Host at a few of the hottest clubs in Las Vegas where my specific job was to meet hot girls and pull phone numbers. Often times I'd pull from overcrowded dance floors, where it can be tough to communicate. My advice:

    1. Make sure you can dance well, or at least moderately well.
    2. Dance by yourself or with friends, AROUND, not ON the girlls you wanna pick up. Taunt, flirt, or show off in playful way to gain their attention. You wanna make them smile! Be high energy and don't be afraid to be goofy.
    3. Once you have their attention single out the girl by saying these words into her ear: "How about a dance" OR "let's get a drink" followed by: "I promise I'll return you better than I found you".

    That line is money. Simple. Fun. Non committal. But direct. Be sure to smile. I teach this to my clients and its worked for me like a charm.

    Email or PM if you need more details.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    im actually having trouble with the whole dance floor/loud bar scene myself. I notice girls giving me glances, but im not quite sure how to go in and not be considered "creepy"

    ive found going up to a girl and saying "do you want to dance" hasnt really worked for me..but im at a loss


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