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    Default How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    It seems to be a consistant issue for me in England. Whenever I walk into a club, I see most of the HBs in the middle of the dancefloor, in what seems to be an unapproachable position. I know that there will be answers on how to counter this and would greatly appreicate any advice. Also, to take into consideration is the loud music and compacted clusters of people left, right and centre. Is it perhaps not the best idea to approach a girl surrounded by other groups of people who aren't actually part of the set she is in?

    Thank you in advance,

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    simple, just dance your way over to the girl you wanna dance with and start dancing with her, if its a club anyways. most guys feel like they have to ask a girl for some reason. girls that are actually dancing in the club are actually there to dance, and they like a partner for that, so 95% of the time you wont get shot down, and 90% of the time she wont even turn around to look at you unless you gesture to her you want her to so you can say something. in a club its easy to get away with doing a lot of things you typically wouldnt
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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    also the fact that its super crowded makes it better, girls much prefer one guy grinding behind them rather then five elbows in their back every minute. seriously just try it sometime, dont even ask her, just startdoing it, and you will see what i mean
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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Another thing to try is actually dancing with the girl. I'd say about 65-75% of the time just go up behind her and start dancing/grinding. As has been said, girls at clubs typically don't mind this at all.

    Now by actually dancing I mean this. Go up, grab her hand to turn her around, keep a hold of that hand and put your other hand on her hip and start actually dancing. But do it in a dorky way with a giant smile on your face, make sure she knows you're joking around. Then you can either take her away "Hey, let's get some drinks" or turn her around and keep dancing. Personally I like doing this more because there's plenty of girls that look amazing from the back but once you get to the front she's not nearly as good.

    The key to either approach is to do it confidently and smoothly. I've seen way too many guys start to go up, linger a two feet away, then go up. The girl knows that you're there, so don't even try this. Just go up and start dancing without a second of hesitation.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Gotta say fellas, my dance game sux. I'd say 70-80% of the time when I just start grinding on a girl she does what I call 'the scamper forward/crowd vanish' Lol

    Do I just need to try it on sluttier-lookimg girls? Alpha females? Girl not dancing with her friend?
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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    As much as I dislike dance game, it's a situation I often find myself in. Most of the time I am rather successful with it however. Just make sure you are confident and don't look awkward at all, like your worried about people watching you. Don't hesitate, and you can escalate things quiete quickly compared to having a conversation. Most of the time chicks go on the dance floor because they want a guy to dance up to them, but not a creep.

    Be confident, don't hesitate and be fun. I do the dumbest shit on the dance floor to purposely take the piss out of the whole thing, chicks see you as a fun playful guy and like it.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    The most obvious answer is "Learn how to fucking dance".

    I'd say 90% of guys who go to clubs can't dance.

    Now by dancing I don't just mean one step over the next and wiggling your body in some awkward fashion. Go online youtube a bunch of instructional videos and practice. 1/2 an hour a day and by next weekend, you should be able to perform 1 or 2 impressive looking dance moves.

    Once girls notice you can dance, there is a good possiblity they will come to you. Either by dancing right in front of you, beside you and they will do a lot of hair flinging in your face. It's definitely dhv.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    Autismus, it's nothing personal, just how the dance game is!

    You just have to be confident with what you're doing. I don't think you have to do what poker said and actually learn dance moves. Just be sure you can keep the beat of the music. Most clubs/bars that play music for people to dance to play stuff with a strong bass, which is the beat you should be moving to. Be sure to switch is up too. One song be moving with every beat, the next go with every other, then back to one, then do every third, etc. From talking to girls, the biggest turnoff I've found when it comes to dancing is when a guy can't keep a beat so make sure you get good at that. Once you're good, just go up with confidence.

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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    i disagree with pokerbaby, respectfully of course, dance moves arent what get you girls, they are what make you look like youve got too much time on your hands, and it looks kinda stupid. you can play the silly part and try getting the girl to laugh with it but thats going into rapport without attraction. grinding is what build attraction, not sweet moves lmao. pretty much just grind on her, go don when she does, but when she moves left, you move right. if she dips low, remember your an alpha and dip a little but not much, let her do the work, keep your hands on her hands and hips, put them in her pockets every once in a while, but above all, dont do it too long. get her off the floor ASAP. which im sure y
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    Default Re: How Can I approach A Girl On The Dancefloor

    ou do anyways since your not comfortable dancing in the first place
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