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    Default "Punishing" or "Disciplining" a girl

    hello everybody... and of course, i do not mean physical punishment lol.

    Quick rundown, seeing this girl for over a year now but only 6mths ago, when i started to focus my attention to her, she started to give me mixed signals. Recently, i am seeing that she is taking me for granted on certain things which is starting to become a habit, example, i will ask her for something like a book or program which i need for my schoolwork but she wouldn't bring it and if i ask her about it, she will say that she is sorry, the excuses (some are legit) and that she will bring it... but then she disappoints again. She wouldn't even send a text or call before and tell me that she would be unable to meet me etc... i'm always the initiator. Over the months, i asked her to do 2 other things and she didn't pull thru.

    Right now i am freezing her but i want to call her up on her crap. I don't want things to get worse and i don't want her to feel that as i am accepting her excuses abit that "i am sooooo understandable" so that she would keep on doing it. My aim is that after talking to her, i want us to be cool but she knows not to do it again. I have to be firm but my question is, how do i go about discipline her or "punishing" her verbally without being disrespectful?

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    Default Re: "Punishing" or "Disciplining" a girl

    Please clarify... what do u mean by 'seeing' her? Have u been seeing her as in you are in a relationship... seeing her around school... been friends? Thx
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    Default Re: "Punishing" or "Disciplining" a girl

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Please clarify... what do u mean by 'seeing' her? Have u been seeing her as in you are in a relationship... seeing her around school... been friends? Thx
    No problem. Seeing her as in around school and we're going out together. We do some things as friends, and she has admitted to me that she has feelings for me but would like to take things slow... you know "i'm not ready for a relationship".


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