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    Default trying not to look like i'm on the offensive

    The Rundown:
    2 new Moroccan girls moved into the same floor in my hostel about 2 weeks ago. One(HB8) i am interested in. I have conversed and build good rapport with both of them, especially her friend. They are both the conservative type but really friendly and they're new. I found out it was HB8's birthday and suprised her with a box of choclates, got a hug and a big smile and alot of chit chat.
    I asked them out to the club last night but due to some language barrier things didn't work out. Not sure if it was intentional or we just didn't understand each other. I waited at the bus stop and called and sh1t got mixed up on the phone. When went to another club she messaged me and asked if i was going to join them, i said it was better where i was at so good luck have fun.

    So i want to make contact today and take her out for some food or something -
    Q1 - is this a good idea or not?
    Q2- Should i ask her and her friend out and bring a wingman along?
    Q3- Should i wait, am i approaching this whole thing wrong here?

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    Default Re: trying not to look like i'm on the offensive

    I'd say you need to get this girl on her own. Women are more defensive when with their friends.
    Taking her out for a meal is a good idea. Just be careful you don't fall into the "friend" zone. Keep making her laugh, be a little flirty and ask her about herself.
    BOOM! She'll be yours in now time!

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    Default Re: trying not to look like i'm on the offensive

    you need to figure out how well they speak your language, if you can't effectively communicate with them,don't expect to get anywhere with them. the whole language thing can make girls get deffensive just because they don't understand what your saying. when talking to them be sure to slow your speach down and anunciate every word. be very punctual when talking to them try to make them laugh, taking them out to dinner could be ok if you want to,but do some research into their culture and the culture of the country they come from (some of their mannerisms may be quite different from yours) good luck man!


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