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    Smile On the subject of BF destroyers

    I haven't been posted anything recently mainly because I've been putting what I've read on here into practice. One thing in particular: The BF destroyer. It works wonders for me (mainly I think because I come across as harmless but I worm my way into girls' emotions). Perfect example I was talking to a girl who had a boyfriend one night and the conversation went like this:

    "So how're things going with Nate?!"

    Her:"Not too bad, he's out with friends tonight"

    Me: Oh nice! It's cool you guys trust eachother so much, do you think he's marriage material?"

    Her:"....I'm not sure, his drinking becomes a little excessive sometimes and we fight a lot..."

    Me: Oh really? I'm not much of a drinker myself but I'm sure he can't be that bad, could he?"

    Her:"He came home and yelled at me the other night over stupid stuff after he'd been drinking"

    So here you can see I got her to point out his flaws for me instead, of bringing them up myself. From here I added some dhv stories (subtley btw).

    Me: "That's too bad he seems like a great guy...Usually I just go to the gym and watch movies with some friends or spend time with my niece."

    Her: "Yeah I dunno what I'm gonna do about him...but I love movies!"

    Esentially from here I just built comfort/rapport and projected a non-chalant body language and watched her slowly turn to the dark side...my side. At the end of our encounter she was giving me the "doggy dish eyes", she stayed up talking with me until about 5 AM until I told her I was leaving and she got up off her couch and gave me a hug....not just any hug, the kind of hug where her arms were around my sides and she was pressing her lips against my neck ( not a kissing it but the closest thing I spose).

    Her: Let's hang out again soon, you're an amazing guy and i feel really close to you.

    Those were her words exactly...however my own version of LMR came up and I no longer wanted her, It felt a little under handed stealing a girl from her bf and I had already gotten my validation so I cut and run.

    Me: I had fun tonight and we will definitley hang out again one day soon, don't worry.

    The next day I awoke to a flurry of texts saying pretty much that she felt confused and she wanted to talk again.



    Thanks for reading guys! I've done it to a few other girls with boyfriends too with varying degress of success (heavy Kino with one of the girls in my car two weeks ago thanks to this). My rule is that if I deem the relationship as healty enough I'll back off but, if the dude isnt all that great I don't really feel bad about it.

    Thoughts? Criticisms? Advice? THANKS!!!
    Last edited by KristiBell; 10-07-2012 at 07:06 AM.

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    I'm just as bad with bf destroyer it makes it so easy I have f closed a couple if girls using it and tbh it was easier to get them into bed with me than a lot of single girls :L feels a little morally wrong though but is also soooo much fun knowing you shouldnt be doing it. My rule is if I don't know him it can't harm me.......probs not the best rule but I'm having fun also I'm not sure it would work on a totally healthy relationship so maybe all we do is hurry along the inevitable a little bit.

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    I think It's easier because girls like fun and adventure. Women do like commitment but they also want to know they are desired and attractive. Interesting stuff....dark stuff

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    Good job... girl definately has a loser BF. If he's drinking alot then the relationship is def NOT healthy.

    But i dont understand the 'not wanting her' part. You should have been willing to go somewhere with it. Now u kinda left her hanging emotionally so she is going to pursue u harder. The more u stay away, the more she will be attracted. And if she is in a bad relationship, that plus this great guy who doesnt call her back might give her serious mental issues (unless she is super confident but i dont get that from your conversation).

    My thing is once i use the BF destroyer, its do or die... either Number Close, f-close or LTR... u cant just use it for fun. You must know what you want or how far your willing to go BEFORE you sarge. If not u get into weird situations. A BF destroyer is just that powerful.

    AND if he is a hardcore drunk, he may be unstable and come after you!
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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    First off wow just wow u my friend get how to bf destroy BRAVO! My hat goes off to u my friend.
    U had LMR cuz u don't want her that much in the first place u just wanted her validation (which is beta btw) still u can let her friendzone u just talk to her normally, no Kino, no fucking up the bf
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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    Xavier, I completley agree with you that I was acting beta. She's been texting me non-stop to have lunch with her the last few days so today I told her that if we did have lunch it'd be as friends only. She said she understood so we went to lunch and I friend zoned the hell out of myself to put a stopper to her attraction.

    I used her to validate myself and I feel a little guilty about it now especially since I've known for a long time that a PUA "Leaves them better than you found them", and I failed at that. The BF destroyer is potent and this wasn't the only girl I've used it on in the last week with success. From now on I'm only going to use it if I truly want to f-close the girl.

    Thanks for reading guys!!!!

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    U had LMR cuz u don't want her that much in the first place u just wanted her validation (which is beta btw)

    That's beta? Or is it just practice?


    still u can let her friendzone u just talk to her normally.

    But that's not beta? ...ethics, Dude. Ethics. This is weak in character.
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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    I actually have done this once, and even in person as well. Basically, if a girl I like says she has a boyfriend, then I simply say that he's lucky to have you and that I hope he treats you well. She'll then say some of his flaws (like being abusive sometimes and what not) and blah blah. I've gotten a few phone numbers in the past doing this.

    Definitely a method that works, and even in person. Although if you aren't a dirty person, then I won't recommend doing this lol.

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    I agree that it was great practice, however I should've decided before hand whether or not I wanted to f-close her so that I wouldn't be dealing with the consequences. I have no problem stealing girls from their boyfriends unless they are in a healthy relationship or the boyfriends are friends of mine.

    I honestly think I was just looking for some practice/validation and I suppose I got both so.....Mission accomplished I guess lol.

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    Default Re: On the subject of BF destroyers

    I recently embarked on BF destroyer and the emotional consequences (for her) were a bit harsher than I would've liked. I think if you do it well you should be able to deliver her a fun adventure, or even replace the BF.

    Morally, I really have no objection to gaming her in the first place. All is fair in love and war.


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