I haven't been posted anything recently mainly because I've been putting what I've read on here into practice. One thing in particular: The BF destroyer. It works wonders for me (mainly I think because I come across as harmless but I worm my way into girls' emotions). Perfect example I was talking to a girl who had a boyfriend one night and the conversation went like this:
"So how're things going with Nate?!"
Her:"Not too bad, he's out with friends tonight"
Me: Oh nice! It's cool you guys trust eachother so much, do you think he's marriage material?"
Her:"....I'm not sure, his drinking becomes a little excessive sometimes and we fight a lot..."
Me: Oh really? I'm not much of a drinker myself but I'm sure he can't be that bad, could he?"
Her:"He came home and yelled at me the other night over stupid stuff after he'd been drinking"
So here you can see I got her to point out his flaws for me instead, of bringing them up myself. From here I added some dhv stories (subtley btw).
Me: "That's too bad he seems like a great guy...Usually I just go to the gym and watch movies with some friends or spend time with my niece."
Her: "Yeah I dunno what I'm gonna do about him...but I love movies!"
Esentially from here I just built comfort/rapport and projected a non-chalant body language and watched her slowly turn to the dark side...my side. At the end of our encounter she was giving me the "doggy dish eyes", she stayed up talking with me until about 5 AM until I told her I was leaving and she got up off her couch and gave me a hug....not just any hug, the kind of hug where her arms were around my sides and she was pressing her lips against my neck ( not a kissing it but the closest thing I spose).
Her: Let's hang out again soon, you're an amazing guy and i feel really close to you.
Those were her words exactly...however my own version of LMR came up and I no longer wanted her, It felt a little under handed stealing a girl from her bf and I had already gotten my validation so I cut and run.
Me: I had fun tonight and we will definitley hang out again one day soon, don't worry.
The next day I awoke to a flurry of texts saying pretty much that she felt confused and she wanted to talk again.
Thanks for reading guys! I've done it to a few other girls with boyfriends too with varying degress of success (heavy Kino with one of the girls in my car two weeks ago thanks to this). My rule is that if I deem the relationship as healty enough I'll back off but, if the dude isnt all that great I don't really feel bad about it.
Thoughts? Criticisms? Advice? THANKS!!!