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    yongwj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    Basically, I found a girl she has a very strong interest on me at the initial.

    Therefore, I start to tease her everytime our conversation. The way of my tease may sound like pointing out all her language mistake or some flaw that she make. After that, there is flirting also. I have make a big mistake is I ask bout whether she comfortable with my flirting. i guess this is the serious mistake that I ever made. But all of these just only happen at Facebook Chat box.

    And out of sudden, I think i have show her my needy and thus lead to her rejection.

    May I know is there anyway to attract her back and gain her attention??

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    How about asking her out for a date instead? If she approve then you should be able to repair the possible negative perception she has for you. If she says no or comes with some excuses not to meet irl, then forget her and move on.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    I got try before.

    However, She reject me. But after that she got ask me go for Karaoke but with her friends who also my friend. She ask my friend to ask me. This weekend we will going to campus to collect our convocation attire and she allow me to send her back. After collection of convocation attire, there will be plenty of time. I will make the remaining time as a date since she not rushing that day without her knowledge.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    Regarding the friend zone problem.

    So far I'm still not the teddy bear yet since she wont express her feeling, life situation to me.

    She seems like still not so comfortable to stay close with me. Don even wan to share the same couch with me.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    Let us know how it goes on the convocation attire.

    It seems like she´s not too interested in you, but to be sure and to still make something good about it you can simply ask her straight forward. Say something like:

    you: Hey (her name), do you think I´m pushy with you?

    her: Yeah, a little bit, why?

    You: Well, it´s just that I simply like you... but you know, I'd still be happy to just have you as a friend and keep it on that level.

    She will reply something. Then, take it from there. At least you´ll get things black on white and you don't have to feel uncertain whether she´s interested in you or not. In worst case keep her as a friend and hit on her girl friends instead =)

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    I think I can only tell that after the Next Sunday.

    From What I feel that, She is in the very neutral state. Sometime just feel a little ioi from her.

    I wan to know that, if the girl is in neutral. The physical will it cause some effect. The physical contact I mean is simply hold her hand for few second or put my hand on her shoulder for a while. It that will cause any big deal.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    SO far everytime we both hang out her fren also around. Somehow, Our conversation in facebook is look quite smooth 1. But when hang out she will stay a bit far. I don know whether is shy or purposely avoiding misunderstanding.
    I plan wan to observe the situation during this sunday date. see how she respond.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    dude, i have the same situation with the girl that i am interested in. i was doing great at first but then showed my needyness but i was able set up a date with her while being needy, w/c she agrees on, so what i did after setting up a date is ignore her for 2 days. no text, no calling, and facebook shiz, but in those days she's sending me text messages, mostly greetings. we have a date tomorrow so i'm going to call her just to remind her about that, does that show needyness? btw, im going to build rapport and be intriguing to her on the said date.

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    KingKongV

    I also don't know how to answer you.

    Neediness will be obvious if u show her that u cant live without her. Like example, u say something that I miss so much and this few day cant concentrate because of her and so on.

    But how u gonna build rapport with her??

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    Default Re: Need help to gain her attention and attract her

    aaaaaand she flaked out on me ) because she have a thesis defense but, we rescheduled our date on wednesday. is that a good thing?


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