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    Default how to take home the "friendzone" girl

    so i've been stuck in the friendzone with this one girl for a while now. A few months back i asked her out on a date and she told me that she didn't wanna ruin our friendship. In my eyes the friendship is hardly anything that I would care about losing, and I am at the point where I don't wanna date this girl anymore, but i would like to get her into bed.

    Are there any ways i can turn this friendzone girl into a sexual friend or am I out because she already turned me down?

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    Default Re: how to take home the "friendzone" girl

    Well she didnt turn you down, she just said she didnt want to 'ruin' the friendship. What you have to understand is its very rare that guys have attractive female friends that are plutonic and usually its a colleague or someone you went to school with that binds it together. Eventually if you dont move out of friendzone you tie yourself down and eventually one of you will move on to a relationship and the friendship will be lost anyway.

    Perhaps ask her out for a casual coffee or bite to eat. Kino her when you meet her. Then ask her back to your place. If she says no, thinking its moving forward, just say well we're friends right there's no harm in coming over? Then make a physical move on her or ask her to stay the night. Ignore whatever she says and observe her body language. She will likely put up lots of LMR but plough through that. You really have to gamble it all and be prepared to loose the friendship but its worth it because you will loose the friendship anyway as soon as she gets a boyfriend. Just be 100% confident and persistent. Insist within yourself 'tonight I am going to kiss her no matter what'. If she totally rejects you she will at least be slightly flattered and if she really is a true friend she will stick by you. If a kiss or romantic move 'ruins' a friendship it was never there in the first place. You will find out quick smart her feelings for you. She will either accept it, be suprised dwell on it and accept it later next date or she will push herself away from you in shock. Either way it takes you out of being in limbo. All or nothing.

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    Default Re: how to take home the "friendzone" girl

    I agree with White Dragon that it is all or nothing at this point. If you make a move and it's total rejection then at least you tried but if you don't make a move, and you tell her how you felt after she gets into a realtionship with another guy, and then she tells you that she wanted you but you never tried, at that point you will want to kick yourself. So just do it, and Good luck man!


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