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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    ...why don't you just invite her over to your place? If that doesn't work just keep taking small steps back until you find out where you need to start. Why do the build up if you don't have to? This also shows your intentions clearly so she knows what's up. No surprises.

    In the words of J.T. Tran, "Least amount of effort for the most amount of p*ssy." Lol
    Sounds great! What do I do if she flakes again? Do I freeze her out or ignore it and keep insisting?

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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    She won't. Just be assertive.
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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Alright I'll make plans with her for Friday/Saturday night and work from there. Thanks for the help guys!

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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    She won't. Just be assertive.
    So I texted her today and this is how it went:

    ME: Hey stranger! What are you doing this weekend?

    HER: I'm afraid I'm going to Calgary for the weekend

    ME: Oh how typical of you. From now on I'm just gonna assume that you're busy next time I decide to ask you to hang out :P

    HER: NO! Don't do that I've had some stressful things happen to me this week and needed to get away. I decided this yesterday :/

    ME: Ok I undertand. Since I've been asking you to come out and you've been mercilessly shutting me down, I'm gonna leave it up to you now. If you want to see me then text me when you're free, if not then it's your loss :P

    I kinda got the impression that she wanted me to ask her what happened but i decided to leave that for when we do end up hanging out.....if that ever happens.

    How do I break her cycle of always telling me that "she's busy" when I ask her to hang out? Or should I just take it as a sign of disinterest and move on to my next target?

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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Stop asking and start telling.

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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    I said fuck it and told her to txt me when she's free.

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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by Konstantin View Post
    I said fark it and told her to txt me when she's free.
    Or that. That works too. Lol
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    Default Re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Or that. That works too. Lol
    I appreciate you help, but I gotta draw the line somewhere. It's really frustrating when a girl keeps coming up with excuses or flakes on purpose. I told her " if you want to hang out then txt me when you're free, if not then it's your loss :P"

    On to the next one! haha


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