re: Need help with girls not contributing to conversation
Yes there are some women who it feels like you are pulling teeth. And the more you TRY, the less they talk. It's almost like reinforcing their behaviour. This is where you realize that you can't control anyone. Sometimes they are having an off day. Sometimes they already have a romantic interest before they met you.
Something happened, for her to feel free to text you now. I wouldn't run it into the ground by trying to have clever conversation with her. Keep it simple. Let her do most of the talking. When you feel it's dieing down either pick it up with a question or end it first. You can still use push/pull with very little words. You know what kind of emotions you can put into her if you respond to her, right when she says something you don't like, with "Wow. Ok"? Then you end up getting a paragraph long text so you won't be upset with her. Very simple, yet powerful.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."