There is a simply formula for our interactions in life, it is this
NUMBER OF TIMES RISKING REJECTION = THE AMOUNT OF WOMEN YOU GET.
To farther fill in the formula a little bit:
NUMBER OF TIMES RISKING REJECTION + AMOUNT OF RISK = THE AMOUNT OF WOMEN YOU GET.
Basically this formula says that the more times you risk rejection, and the more amount of risk you are willing to take each time, the more women you get.
Since it is obvious that the number of times we risk rejection, and the amount of risk we take, has a direct corelation to how many women we get, it is this clear that our NUMBER 1 TASK as men is to risk rejection.
The following question is, WHAT DO WE MEAN BY RISKING REJECTION ?
I would say it means the following :
(you may add to this list)
1 - Risking rejection by SAYING SOMETHING "Hi/ Hello / Hey / Something Situational (whatever suits you and the situation there and then to simply start talking with her)
2 - Risking TO SHOW INTEREST/DESIRE IN HER subtly or not. Could be to ask if she is singel. Or tell her she has an "absolutely stunning body" if that is what you think. (be warm to girls and they will be warm to you ) ( show her that you are interested and she will show you that she is interested back )
3 - Risking TO SHOW INTEREST IN HER BY Kino ( asking to dance, sit down with her and put your hand on her teigh, ask her for a kiss, ask her to come closer and give her a kiss... whatever Kino that can lead to a kiss, or at least some escalation of kino. )
4 - Risking to COME HOME WITH YOU, OR GO SOMEWHERE THAT YOU CAN GET PHYSICAL
5 - and last Risking to GO FROM KISSING TO SEX
( RISKING TO ASK FOR PHONE NUMBER/EMAIL WHATEVER may also be in here somewhere, depending on the situation, and how you wanna go about it)
This is our job as men !
Simply to take on all these risks ourselves, and not leave it up to anybody else.. just because we dont want to risk rejection.
Remember that this is very simpel.. THE MORE TIMES YOU RISK ALL OF THE ABOVE = THE MORE WOMEN YOU GET.
- THE MORE SEX YOU GET
- THE MORE RELATIONSHIPS YOU END UP IN OR HAVE A CHANCE TO END UP IN.
And may i add it last that the more you do this, and the more real a way you act doing all of this.. the more you realize it is okey, even if you get "rejected" at one of these stages. IT IS OKEY.
IT IS NO BIG DEAL. YOU SIMPLY GO FOR THE NEXT RISK.. and the NEXT RISK.. and so on..
Sooner or later.. you are so used to risk that are almost "immune" not all the way.. but kind of.