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Thread: Awesome at one on one dates, not good enough in crowds

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    Angry Awesome at one on one dates, not good enough in crowds

    Sup guys (and creeper gals), just joined the forum and have been following you guys for about a month after my friend read "the game".

    Alright so getting to the point here, I can pretty much f-close if I can get a one on one date. It feels like my strength are one on one since everything seems to be in more control.

    I've been practicing on opening sets, and talking to everyone at the club. I hate using wings to separate a set to get one on one time, since it feels dependent on how my wing does, and even the slightest mistake or awkward silence leads to the girl I pulled aside looking for her friend.

    Since I am from a smaller town of Portland, OR, the X-factor seem to come by more frequently. IE: Get the girl to break off from her friend, escalate, flirt, dance, then BAM her friend comes and fucks everything up.

    Only way to over come this is to get used to the X-factor situation no matter if it is her alpha male friend/hater/group of friends? I immediately get the "who's this guy" vibe. Very tough situation, if they already have high value, and HB6 - HB10's will have high value friends lurking around the club all the time. Its rare if they do not know anyone else in the club other than the friend she was with.

    So my question is:
    If her "guy friend" alpha male approaches, do I just hold my ground and be friendly or be aggressive?

    If her high value friend "club owner that has secret crush on her" approaches what should I do?

    If group of her girl friends approach us, how do I get instant acceptance in a short time before she gets snatched?

    I understand this is probably an issue with smaller cities, but it must happen in bigger cities as well, not as frequent, I'm assuming.

    A little info about my self: Inner game is good, looks is far above average, good shape, no need for pea cocking with my good sense of fashion.

    Pro-Tip for collard shirts with sport coat look: Get the metal collar inserts with magnets that attach in the inside. The collar will always stay crisp and high. You will get a nice "peaked" collar from the sport coat, especially from the side. Nothing sloppier than a laid down smashed collar underneath the sport coat. $20 at Nordstroms.

    Thanks guys, and I'd appreciate some help from the masters!!!

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    Default Re: Awesome at one on one dates, not good enough in crowds

    if an alpha male approaches my best advice is to make him into your friend, it will show that you are sociable, make convorsation with both of them also i would recomend not spending more than 15-20 minutes with her at a time, get her number and get out (unless you want a One Night Stand) as for dealing with her female friends be sure to make them laugh, this will help to ease the Tension of introductions it really shouldn't be a big deal to run sets with her friends in them, i recomend the book "mystery methode" by mystery for solid techniques on how to use group dynamics to your advantage

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    Default Re: Awesome at one on one dates, not good enough in crowds

    Maintain your frame, it's your world they're just joining it, but be super social and friendly. Everyone is your friend when you're out

    Meteora nailed it
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    Default Re: Awesome at one on one dates, not good enough in crowds

    yea make friends with other guys too, not everyone will be an enemy.

    I give the guys hanging with a girl an option to either to accept my high 5 or not high 5 me.

    If they accept, their good and friendly.
    if they dont, theyll seem rude and uncomfortable or shy.

    Its awesome how much i dont get high 5s from other guys and they just give me a face that looks like this -_- that motionless face.

    and its awesome cuz when the look like -_- and I look like
    all their doing is making themselves look bad.

    so be friends, if they dont then AMOG them or ignore them by bringing the girl with you and your back facing them. This is the BEST way to amog a guy, cuz all she sees is you.


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