Two questions here
So an acquaintance of mine suggested that when asking a girl out you want to be specific about what you want to do with her so instead of "grab a bite" be like "grab ___ food at _____ place". In the past I had sort of been more vague ie "lets chill" "grab some food" etc. Thoughts?
The other part is more specific. Long story short, hit if off with a HB 8 bout two weeks ago. First time we met she was drunk/tipsy, we had a 2 hour conversation with some touching. I ended up walking her back to her place and ended up turning down an invite to her place down (Yes I'm retarded) but got a #. We chilled next day for a bit I made no advancement (once again, I'm retarded). Texted her about last weekend, she was out of town. On Monday texted to see if she were around this week, she said she was busy.
I see her twice a week at work and doesnt even look my way, not in a bad way but just doesnt look. I'm guessing she has/had some level of interest when we first met cause she wasnt hammered and was obviously giving off signs. After Monday I was planning on giving up but I quickly realized I have no other weekend plans. For now my plan is to make one last push using a new approach to see if she wants to do something this weekend. If this last one doesnt work I'm done for a while.
Question here is if I should just forget about her and move on or try one last time?