Something I've learned over the years (and especially during the past few months) is: There are NO absolutes, when it comes to women.
What works with one girl, may not work with another, & Vice Versa.
I titled this thread Breaking the "rules" because I broke a long-standing "rule" that most guys swear by.
That being: "Never tell a girl how you feel about her".
I believe that's true in most situations, but there ARE exceptions to this one.
A few months ago I met a girl who seemed different than any other I've ever been with. We click on every level & have become extremely close. Not to mention, she looks just like the "dream girl" I conjured up in my head when I was 13... (The ice blue eyes & long blonde hair...)
Everything I've learned about attraction, seduction & "the game" in general, has been paramount in my ability to get this girl. I've been careful not to become needy, clingy or desperate.... & definitely have not offered too much, when it comes to how I feel about her.
BUT... here's where I broke that "rule", & here's what happened:
Something just clicked & I knew I had the opportunity to express my real feelings about her, without having to worry about freaking her out.
Soooo.... I told her.
All I can say is, the timing was perfect!
The dynamic of our relationship skyrocketed into something amazing!!!
It's everything I've always wanted to feel with someone & that person feeling the same way.
When you think about somebody even when you're NOT thinking about them, (If that makes sense...) you have to be willing to take a chance & take things to the next level.
Yes it helped that I already knew how much she thinks about me; so by paying attention to the cues she was giving, I wasn't going out on a limb.
However; if I hadn't expressed my feelings at just the right time, it could have had a negative impact & possibly started to unravel everything we had.
Today's lesson is this:
Pay attention & be aware of where you are in a relationship. And if this is "THE girl", then watch for that perfect moment to let her know she's "The One".