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    Default Breaking the RULES

    Something I've learned over the years (and especially during the past few months) is: There are NO absolutes, when it comes to women.

    What works with one girl, may not work with another, & Vice Versa.

    I titled this thread Breaking the "rules" because I broke a long-standing "rule" that most guys swear by.
    That being: "Never tell a girl how you feel about her".

    I believe that's true in most situations, but there ARE exceptions to this one.

    A few months ago I met a girl who seemed different than any other I've ever been with. We click on every level & have become extremely close. Not to mention, she looks just like the "dream girl" I conjured up in my head when I was 13... (The ice blue eyes & long blonde hair...)

    Everything I've learned about attraction, seduction & "the game" in general, has been paramount in my ability to get this girl. I've been careful not to become needy, clingy or desperate.... & definitely have not offered too much, when it comes to how I feel about her.

    BUT... here's where I broke that "rule", & here's what happened:

    Something just clicked & I knew I had the opportunity to express my real feelings about her, without having to worry about freaking her out.
    Soooo.... I told her.

    All I can say is, the timing was perfect!
    The dynamic of our relationship skyrocketed into something amazing!!!

    It's everything I've always wanted to feel with someone & that person feeling the same way.

    When you think about somebody even when you're NOT thinking about them, (If that makes sense...) you have to be willing to take a chance & take things to the next level.

    Yes it helped that I already knew how much she thinks about me; so by paying attention to the cues she was giving, I wasn't going out on a limb.

    However; if I hadn't expressed my feelings at just the right time, it could have had a negative impact & possibly started to unravel everything we had.

    Today's lesson is this:
    Pay attention & be aware of where you are in a relationship. And if this is "THE girl", then watch for that perfect moment to let her know she's "The One".



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    Default Re: Breaking the "rules"

    aww, sounds like somebody may have won the game i hope you keep her, since you feel that way about her and can openly express it, she may well be the one you've been waiting for your whole life. only time will tell, i think this is the whole point of the game, to find that special someone and have fun getting there

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    Default Re: Breaking the RULES

    Good for you mate, nice to see a post with some genuine meaning and I agree with meteora....looks like you just won

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Breaking the RULES

    It's funny...
    I originally started out learning this to get my ex back.
    Then, in the amount of time necessary for that to be possible, I realized that's not what I really wanted.

    So, I made the decision to move on & just meet lots of people. I wasn't planning on finding "The One" & settling down, but did leave the possibility open.

    Ultimately, I think this is what everyone aspires to accomplish.

    At first thought, it seems like it's really sudden to be this attached to someone....
    BUT, after 2 previous relationships of more than 10 years each, it's actually taken quite a while to find that person.

    So, eventually you might reach a point where you have to decide which is more important:
    Is it having different women all the time; or is it having ONE, special person who completes you?



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