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    downtown is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default When to arrange to meet again?

    I'm looking for some thoughts and opinions on when you should set up the next date? Is it recommended that I set up the next date before the current date is over... Or do I leave it vague and say I'll call you.
    Weighing out the pros and cons of each and which situations either may apply to.

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    Default Re: When to arrange to meet again?

    It depends whether or not you have something semi planned for your next meeting. If you do, then go ahead and set it up.

    You: "Hey, I'm going to see this band here next Thursday, would you want to go?"
    HB: "Yeah sure, sounds fun."
    You: "Ok cool, how does 9 sound?

    Keep it plain and simple. You don't even have to be that specific. If you can't think of anything, just ask if she wants to go to dinner, get some drinks, etc. It's much easier to set up a date in person (IMO) than over the phone/through texting.
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    Default Re: When to arrange to meet again?

    Unless you have something really interesting planned goodbye next date, I would say you will call her, let her fester for a bit, wait a day, two Max call her with a date plan and time, be decisive
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    Default Re: When to arrange to meet again?

    What I've had success with, is saying something along the lines of, "Ya know, I really dig hanging out with you... we totally have to do this again! Well, not necessarily this exact same thing, but you know what I mean. Let's get together again this weekend... You gotta try the pizza at XXXX! I swear they have some Italian guy with a mustache named Mario Luigi... or something like that. Maybe I'm getting confused with that old Nintendo game; but either way, it rocks!"

    Be confident & "assume the sale" (so to speak). Inject a touch of humour & show her you have a plan.
    (Even though you can absolutely change the plan before you get together.)

    The way I've done THAT in the past would be, to call her & chat for a minute.... then say "By the way, change of plans. We're going to XXX for Margaritas & then we can roll to XXX & catch this awesome band!"



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