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Thread: I think im becoming a a hole lol

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    Default I think im becoming a a hole lol

    Well ive been trying to be cocky funny n theres times
    Im just cocky n not funny. Lol anyways, lately ive noticed i over neg
    Or just be an ass hole to girls and make them feel stupid. I dont try to its just
    Where i practice my game is at work with these cashiers normally the age of 18
    So i find them a bit annoying and stupid haha

    My question is how to neg correctly and how to run the dick card on girls
    Cuz i hear once you master it the girls love it. I want the girls to persue me!

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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    Good news: You've heard right. Once you've calibrated to how much/when to mix cocky/funny girls will be under your spell.

    Bad news: you're gonna have to keep experimenting to calibrate. That mean overnegging (and blowing yourself out) as well as undernegging (and falling into the FZ) a few times before you start to see a pattern - not really bad news tho cuz it's kind of fun to do calibration experiments and blow yourself out

    Here's a few pointers to things I've noticed:

    (1) How much cocky (negging/teasing) a girl can take and how much funny (rapport) she needs seem to roughly correlate with her own perceived value of herself (which is usually her HB#). Occasiuonally you'll find those outliers like a HB6 who thinks she's a HB10, but IMO those girls are either crazy or high maintinance or compensating for insecurities or all of the above and not really worth the effort.

    (2) The general rule of thumb I go by (not accurate 100% of the time, but is a good starting point to know how much cocky/funny to combo)

    HB6 - 20%cocky 80%funny (these girls are fragile)
    HB7 - 40%cocky 60%funny (she knows she's hot, but knows she's not the hottest)
    HB8 - 60%cocky 40%funny (she wants a connection, but she's approached by guys trying to connect with her pretty constantly - be slightly the exception)
    HB9 - 80%cocky 20%funny (she knows she's the sh1t - or pretty close to it)
    HB10 - 95%cocky 3%funny 2%ignoring her (this is the "I can change him" effect that puts so many HB10s with douchebags. He is a complete jerk to her almost all the time, except for that tiny 3% where he really connects with her. That hope, combine with the higher value demonstrated in the 95% cockiness, is enough to keep her in pursuit)
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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Good news: You've heard right. Once you've calibrated to how much/when to mix cocky/funny girls will be under your spell.

    Bad news: you're gonna have to keep experimenting to calibrate. That mean overnegging (and blowing yourself out) as well as undernegging (and falling into the FZ) a few times before you start to see a pattern - not really bad news tho cuz it's kind of fun to do calibration experiments and blow yourself out

    Here's a few pointers to things I've noticed:

    (1) How much cocky (negging/teasing) a girl can take and how much funny (rapport) she needs seem to roughly correlate with her own perceived value of herself (which is usually her HB#). Occasiuonally you'll find those outliers like a HB6 who thinks she's a HB10, but IMO those girls are either crazy or high maintinance or compensating for insecurities or all of the above and not really worth the effort.

    (2) The general rule of thumb I go by (not accurate 100% of the time, but is a good starting point to know how much cocky/funny to combo)

    HB6 - 20%cocky 80%funny (these girls are fragile)
    HB7 - 40%cocky 60%funny (she knows she's hot, but knows she's not the hottest)
    HB8 - 60%cocky 40%funny (she wants a connection, but she's approached by guys trying to connect with her pretty constantly - be slightly the exception)
    HB9 - 80%cocky 20%funny (she knows she's the sh1t - or pretty close to it)
    HB10 - 95%cocky 3%funny 2%ignoring her (this is the "I can change him" effect that puts so many HB10s with douchebags. He is a complete jerk to her almost all the time, except for that tiny 3% where he really connects with her. That hope, combine with the higher value demonstrated in the 95% cockiness, is enough to keep her in pursuit)
    Thanks Autismus good advice, ill keep the ratios in mind

    Its all a balance between push/ pull and cocky/ funny to build attraction IMHO

    Over negging or the other extreme of playing the clown is what i am trying to eradicate

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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    I agree pretty solidly with these ratios

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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    All right i had a feeling it works not sure i was doing it right. I usually
    Like being a jerk. Its like a test from my point of view if they dont get butt hurt
    Or anything then they have higher value and selfesteem and is worth running
    Game. But like you said Autimus ive crashed and burned n made many many
    Beautiful women mad, but i got a laugh out of it lol

    Well, trial and error til i master it.

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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    What helped me at first was that i might over neg BUT when that's out of the way, i just be funny and personable. This way they can see your not a complete tool. And it helps if you can master saying negs in a way where they cant tell if your kidding. That way, u can give mixed signals ... they think your a jerk at first but you act nice ... teasing them for things they say while u talk (tease in a funny way). .. u can get the mixed signal across. Then u can calibrate better in the long run.

    I like the ideas Autismus says but ratings are VERY subjective. Especially in a high population area like mine. You may go somewhere and the hottest HB is a 10. But if there are many 6's around, her self value will be through the roof. Same if the hottest around is a 7... her value gets skewed. Its like grading on a curve lol
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    Default Re: I think im becoming a a hole lol

    We have a saying in Floroda - a 9 in Ocala is a 7 in Gainesville / is a 5 in Orlando

    That's why I started using an equation lol
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