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    Default so there's this girl that I like

    hello fellow pua members Im having a bit of trouble talking to this stunning girl that is on the volleyball team at the college Im attending.... she happens to be the captain of the team and Im not sure how to approach because every time I see her she is surrounded by her teammates and a lot of the guys from the basketball team,I go to all the volleyball games I mean who wouldnt go to see girls jump up and down in there little short spandex but Ive caught a couple of eye contact with her during the game (ioi or not?) and sometimes in the hallway she would hold eye contact with me as I walk by,the last game is this upcoming saturday what should I do? I was thinking of taking the direct opener approach but I dont know any that would fit this situation
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    Default Re: so there's this girl that I like

    Contact Autismus

    only advice i can give you is, if you hold eye contact for even just a moment thats an ioi unless you look like a spastic. If its happen a couple times in the hallway then i think its deffantly an IOI,

    I'm from australia and have never been to a college, so not my skill, let alone gaming during sports. I'd say approach. Direct or using an object or neg opener if she is stunning.

    But as I Said ask Autismus
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: so there's this girl that I like

    @Tyrone - thanks for the shout out bro!

    @Viruscast:

    About gaming her at a sporting event... don't. The adrenaline, the emotional investment in the game, the logistics she needs to remember to be where when, the hierarchy between the players and with the coach, the need to maitain a professional demeanor while representing the team in public - any one of these alone would be a game wrecking distraction, and while she's playing they are all happening at once. ...unless she's on dinner break o.O and sitting/standing in line alone - it's fine to do it then.

    Being a sports player she notices the crowd - she notices when a guy catches her eye - that might be you The eye-contact could be an IOI, could be a coincidence, either way, it's time to approach her.

    Walk up to her when she's alone and game her during normal daygame conditions. Direct would be good, strike up a convo and dhv.

    Here are a few reading assignments for things to say:
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...logy-eine.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/3...versation.html
    These two ^ will help with content on that first meeting

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...right-way.html
    My Direct Game Frame - Cody
    These two ^ will help your Direct Game in general (also check out some of Codys' direct game FR's from here - you'll have to scroll to his section)

    Then after the initial meeting/Number Close, you'll need some conversational content

    Texting: http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

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    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...ames-here.html
    Advanced Cube - custom game 4 cutom Cubes

    And general transitioning/stacking
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...html#post64096

    Mmmm... so pretty to see this all in one place
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    Default Re: so there's this girl that I like

    Wow, saving this thread, always takes me ages to find all the conversational thread...been here ages now and still can't search the forums properly :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: so there's this girl that I like

    Yeah great thread right here. Bookmark made
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