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Thread: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

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    Default Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Hey guys, last Sunday I number closed a HB 8+ who was sitting at the bus stop - I was walking by on my way to the train station to go out of town.

    Anyway, I just casually opened and realised she didn't have much grasp of what I was saying. I asked her where she was from (France) and she told me she was here to improve her English. So I just quickly told her that I'd like to help her out & she said "well talk to me" at which point I told her I had to run for my train but showed her my phone and suggested we do it over coffee, she agreed - number closed.

    After a little bit of texting - made tricky and probably almost blown by a mutual lack of understanding of what we were both saying, I laid the smackdown and said Monday, 4pm, hope you're free. Confirmed.

    So, assuming she doesn't flake and she meets me... I want to know if anyone here has experience of meeting up with a girl with the obvious language obstacles! Maybe I should get a French phrasebook beforehand too?

    Would be great to read your stories..
    j

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Most of the girls I've dated haven't spoken English, I've had to overcome the barrier between Portuguese French Italian, Norwegian, Persian, and Russian, and its surprisingly easy, just Kino and control everything with body language, and the best thing annoying is that you have a good excuse to do it since she can't understand your words very well you can get away with kino so much easier
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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    Most of the girls I've dated haven't spoken English, I've had to overcome the barrier between Portuguese French Italian, Norwegian, Persian, and Russian, and its surprisingly easy, just Kino and control everything with body language, and the best thing annoying is that you have a good excuse to do it since she can't understand your words very well you can get away with kino so much easier
    What I was thinking... thanks buddy.

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    No doubt dude, a few pointers, look at her like she's the only girl in the room, when you can't talkthats important cuz she wants to feel like even though you can't understand her, you understand how she feels. Touch her a lot, any time you get the chance do it, cuz she is new here, for all she knows, guys here could always hold her hand while talking to her or brush the hair off her face, even pick a hair off her shirt, any reason to touch her, as creepyas that sounds haha
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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Use your body to communicate, and by that I don't mean to go sexual on her early on. I mean use hang gestures, when you say something...point to the things you are talking about, much as you would do with a 5 year old. Besides you should always treat girls as if they are 5 year old...take the lead!

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    I speak french if you need help translating stuff for your next text games

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    All great advice! Thx for the offer Ron, translating isnt the issue, theres always google for that ;-) its more when she tries to text in english and it just causes much confusion..

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Quote Originally Posted by forestred_12 View Post
    All great advice! Thx for the offer Ron, translating isnt the issue, theres always google for that ;-) its more when she tries to text in english and it just causes much confusion..
    Just don't text her "voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir" and you should be good

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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Damn now I wanna know what that means lol
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    Default Re: Going out with a French girl on Monday - language barrier!

    Forestred and gentlemen.... Major is GOOGLE translate (any language) to and from... How you use it is up to you... You can use it to make it seem as if you are really learning her language as well or break the communication barrier which is very important as well...

    Man Have Blast!


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