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    Default i need help understanding this girl I know

    so me and this girl have talked for a long time but it seems i never understand what shes trying to say. she will be like im not talking about that. i have no idea what else she would be talking about. she gets mad at me because 90 percent of the time i have to say idk what your talking about she will be like of course. its killing any chance i have with this girl any help guys i need it
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: i need help understanding

    You care too much. Stop caring. That's what's blowing your chances. You're reacting to her actions, of which you shouldn't. You are a man. You are concrete. You are stable.
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    Default Re: i need help understanding

    I didn't really understand your post and wouldn't have known what youre problem was if cody hadn't replied. Guys right good English and clear sentences with commas and periods.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: i need help understanding

    Keep in mind, girls don't communicate with "logic" most of the time...
    They speak a whole different language based on emotions.

    So, you have to decipher & interpret what she's REALLY saying, instead of taking her words in a literal sense.

    This is also why in the beginning stage of meeting a girl, don't worry about what's being "spoken".... pay attention to body language & be flirty.

    However; in your case, you've been talking with this girl for a while so you DO need to hear the words.... but again, it's not about what what she says, it's about what she means.

    And even if you ask them, they STILL can't explain it in a way that's gonna make sense.

    The best bet is to figure out what her reason for saying something is. (Then you can have some sort of an idea what the real issue is)

    AND... take note of HOW she's saying it... like emotionally... and you'll know she's upset because of such n such thing.

    Most of the time, the girl just wants you to commiserate with her & all you need to do is make her feel like you genuinely care.

    You don't have to try solving the problem... just let her know you're "listening" & that you're "there for her".

    On a side note-
    If it's something completely different than the scenario I described, then ask her if she'll sit down & explain what certain words & phrases mean to her.

    My ex had a totally different meaning for the word "help" than I did.
    So when I offered to help her with anything (Like planning a birthday party)she got pissed because, to HER that meant I was saying it was HER JOB, but I would "reluctantly pitch in".

    There were many other things too... but that's an example of how what a woman says, doesn't actually let you know what she means.

    (Yes, it's a complicated language!!)

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    Default Re: i need help understanding this girl I know

    yea thanks guys. she cant make up her mind so i said that we are not talking any more mainly because shes in new york about to bang some guy so i let her go
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: i need help understanding this girl I know

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    yea thanks guys. she cant make up her mind so i said that we are not talking any more mainly because shes in new york about to bang some guy so i let her go
    Good man, let her go, don't put the next one on a pedestal, brush off and move on to the next beautiful woman.
    Remember, YOU are the prize bro.


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