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Thread: Having the right "Attitude" can make you invincible to rejection

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    Default Re: Having the right "Attitude" can make you invincible to rejection

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That's a great tip!!

    Telling her, "Hey I heard that".. gives the impression that you just took it as her being playful, AND that she was being a bit of a "sassy-pants" by using sarcastic humor to get your attention.

    And to keep walking lets her know she's gonna have to do better than that.


    NICE!

    Another response for that particular situation would be to come right out & say to her, "Hey now, if you're wanting to get my attention, that's not the right way to go about it. How about asking me for coffee or a drink instead?" *wink & grin

    Using the role reversal / situation flip on her is a pretty successful way of flirting & building attraction.
    (Seeing how it's usually us guys asking to do coffee or drinks.)

    But I totally dig the way you handled that one.
    And this my friend was basically from a traditional girl, no disrespect to her but if this is coming from a every day girl what are you going to face from a really attractive female thats hit on all the time and may have her shields way up....

    As I said, I see girls say something sh1tty, but teasing, and the guy gets flustered and may end up cussing her out or losing his cool, which instantly by a response like that your gone and shown your inability to handle her.

    Another good one, I simply greeted a girl again, hey XXXX how are you today....she says I was good until you came around. I sat down a seat over from her, logged into my email, and about a few seconds later I said What do you have some type of disorder where you cant sit next to me(indirectly inferring shes lesbian), she didnt know what to say and another girl in the room laughs at her and says Ohhhh you have a disorder! I didnt do anything with this girl cause she was not even on my radar, but she kept hacking at me and I pushed her away everytime and she kept coming back for more......really wanted to tell her to go F her herself because of how she acted but that would be below my morals. I wont lie especially since I wasnt attracted to her at all. Became a nuisance, but overall the training and experience from handling her added up in the end.

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    Default Re: Having the right "Attitude" can make you invincible to rejection

    That is indeed a fantastic outlook that I wish to adopt! But what if you ask for her number and instead of getting a "ew, no" you get a sympathetic, "ummm... I'm sorry... I'd rather not..." sort of thing? To me this is the absolute worst rejection

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    Default Re: Having the right "Attitude" can make you invincible to rejection

    Quote Originally Posted by katangafor View Post
    That is indeed a fantastic outlook that I wish to adopt! But what if you ask for her number and instead of getting a "ew, no" you get a sympathetic, "ummm... I'm sorry... I'd rather not..." sort of thing? To me this is the absolute worst rejection
    To be honest with you, id rather get a absolute rejection then the damn chick wasting my time just to maintain attention flow to boost her ego.

    Some girls will exchange numbers and blow up your phone just to talk but then youll never get anywhere with them. Girls like to do this to suckers just so they can maintain a "Social Status" where other people see them on their phone constantly and think they are the COOL PERSON.

    You can tell these girls by looking at them and seeing "Left hand" - "Cell phone"....theyll always have a cellphone constantly in one of their hands...like its farking fused to their arm. Or it will always be visible on them, either in a hand, or when they are sitting itll be inches away. And usually they are huge gossipers as well. I understand we are in 2012 and technology on phones/smartphones has increased greatly but how frequently do you have to be on it....? Use your good judgement on this.

    I love to see girls who keep their cellphone in their purse, or in their pocket, and ever better, if they are with you they turn it off


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