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Thread: Need advice on a flake

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    Default Need advice on a flake

    About a month ago I made good connections with a girl that i showed no interest at the time with. I was out with two of my buddies at a local bar. One of them invited a group of women he knew and we hung with them all night. I was pretty drunk so i knew she was flirting with me (touching me any chance she could, folling me...) but i did nothing in return. Then night ended and she wrote her number on my arm and my other buddies arm and said to text her when we were safe at home. Anyways she eagerly texted me for like a week and i did too. We hung once again, but she said something rude to someone so i said " what a C..." jokingly and she flipped out really bad. Next few days texts were slow and went to none at all. I deleted her number and threw up the white flag.

    Two weeks later she asks to see me and is suspiciously very friendly again. This time around i havent responeded like i care anymore. What should i do? I made plans to go bar hopping in two days and told her to go...

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    It doesn't hurt to have her go, but where does the flake part come in at?

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    Go about it however you want, if it were me, I would play hard to get, not eager to text her, shorter replies, enough to keep her texting, but nothing too interesting, just be yourself but don't be outgoing like you were before until you go out with her, when you go out with her, have a good time, but kinda give her the impression you can have a good time without her. Slowly work into going back to the way things were. You want her to feel like she over reacted before, and you don't want her to feel like everything is great again right away or she will take it for granted. In order to keep the ball in your Court, you have to turn that around on her like she would do to youcuz thats just what girls do hahaha.
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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    Yeah...seems like she likes you...she restarted contact...roll with it...

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    To Amsu13- The time period after i pissed her off i felt like saying sorry and all fixed it so i asked her to coffee, and then to get a bite to eat another day. She said she had plans both times and didnt asked to re-schedual any other time. So i said hell with it and delete.

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    Cool Re: Need advice on a flake

    Ok then Refer to Daltonbrayall's previous post because he is exactly right in his words..

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    So dalton, is it better that i play hard to get? If i do go out with people, should i talk to my/her friends and kind of act like shes not too interesting? She's sending me texts asking to hang, and i said i cant twice and once i was planning on showing up at her class like she asked but was late so she left. Then when i said this weekend, shes asking to hang tonight as well? Almost feels like something happened that she wants to hang once again.

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    Your probably a fallback dude, play hard to get, act like your not interested, but the key is gradually showing more interest. You Have to let her feel like she's getting somewhere with you,but also like she's working for it so when she finally gets there she will be less likely to pull that shit again
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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    I think Dalton's advice is best here. Don't look at her as your top option. If she wants you, make her work for it. I would start by disqualifying her to set the tone that you aren't going to fawn over her.

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    Default Re: Need advice on a flake

    I think dalton is right... definitely.

    I just wanted to say that cocky funny is one thing... no problem. Making fun of her is fine but i would NEVER call a woman the C word.

    Its disrespectful to the max. And most woman will not tolerate it. Usually, B!+H is more acceptable and fun. Its less serious.

    But again, DB is right. Never act too interested. If she doesnt respond to texts, give it two weeks again. As u noticed, going cold made her want to contact u again.

    I,ve learned never to delete a girls number. Every time i do, they end up contacting me again. Deleting numbers is an emotional reaction guys have. It really accomplishes nothing. She still has it so its almost pointless that u dont have hers. Why should she have ur number and u don't have hers? Its kind of a privacy thing with me. Plus u could always use it to block her number lol
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