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    Cool Situation Flake by Amsu13

    I had a previous meet date (plan) with a woman that didn't take place... Her reason was that she was really fatigue which she mentioned earlier in the afternoon which I believe is the prep for ultimately "the Flake"

    So when I ask her if everything was a Go she said she wasn't really feeling up to it... I said cool that I would catch her later...

    Grant it this was A Gym meet to work out, but in my mind you KNOW if your doing something you should be prepared for it.

    Now I could overlook it... But no text since then and I'm not gonna be the one to initiate contact when I kept up my end... She has checked out my profile on my sites but no text...

    Keep in mind this woman is pretty sharp as well as far as dating engagement...

    What do you guys think? I'm going NC period until she contacts me.. When she does I'll we can go from there.

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    Default Re: Situation Flake

    Is this a girl you met online or got a n close from?
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    Default Re: Situation Flake

    I think the important thing is to act like she has to EARN your trust back. If you're intent on going to the gym, tell her she's gonna have to carry your bag since she flaked on you last time. Be playful, but firm.

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    Default Re: Situation Flake

    I disagree, don't make her carry anything,housing wanna make her your servant.what you could do if you wanna go that route you could play linkings kiss reward game, its on here somewhere, but basically just tell her that since she flaked on you the first time, she's got to earn her kisses for the night, I think its a great idea, and since its one were testing, I wouldn't mind seeing how it works for you.but since right now your problem is more that you need to get her on the date first and less about what happens next, lets take this one step at a time and focus on that first part shall we?
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    Default Re: Situation Flake by Amsu13

    Why She Flakes:

    1. Gym is not fun at all, Make your first date fun, something adults dont do like go to one of those electronic game places where you win the tickets and get a prize, say you havent been in a while,

    2. Keep it innocent, her defences are high becuase she isn't comfortable with you, start calling her by a playful nickname or what her friends call her, anything that relates to her, re assure that its just to have fun. (friendly way)

    You have to be Unique with every contact, keep every moment exciting and unpredictable, my theory is people with personality dissorders would make great MPUA's if they new the simple steps, switch it, keep it fun and never let know whats coming next.

    Then game her in person.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Situation Flake

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    I disagree, don't make her carry anything,housing wanna make her your servant.what you could do if you wanna go that route you could play linkings kiss reward game, its on here somewhere, but basically just tell her that since she flaked on you the first time, she's got to earn her kisses for the night, I think its a great idea, and since its one were testing, I wouldn't mind seeing how it works for you.but since right now your problem is more that you need to get her on the date first and less about what happens next, lets take this one step at a time and focus on that first part shall we?
    I actually agree with you...the gym is awful as far as dates go. He just seemed pretty set on it so I thought if it had to be that...

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    Cool Re: Situation Flake by Amsu13

    Gentlemen I apologize for lack of information this was planned meet for a second date... First date Hard Rock Cafe we chilled and got to know each other...

    This Woman Loves the gym, and I'm in the Gym often.. So this was a plan for the Gym... My problem is If you are the one who failed to make the meet you should be the one to initiate our next...

    So I sat to watch what would take place, no text from her... I Could be the one to call or text but the last time I checked communication works both ways...

    Now I could easily put my pride aside for the score and then punish her in a particular way like NC after.

    Just want to share something real and see what you guys think and come up with.

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    Default Re: Situation Flake by Amsu13

    Yes,it is more alpha to go nc after she doesn't reply but its not my style, I am confident enough to be alpha without trying, prime example right there Haha but anyways if it were me I would reinitiate contact because I'm alpha enough to initiate contact because thats what I want. So I would initiate contact and tell her about your second date, and that you will see her there before she has a chance to reply, and if she then says she wont, I would call her out on it by saying "wow you really don't wanna go out with me do you?" again thats just what I would do, not what most people or even you will probably do and thats fine, but if your alpha enough when you initiate contact, it wont even matter that you contacted her first. It doesn't need to be a game of who can wait the longest to call.
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    Default Re: Situation Flake by Amsu13

    Yea, I feel you on that... As it stands I'm just peeping and will give her opportunity to step to me before I do so which I have no problem with... I'm really overloaded with women so I can watch without too much attention focused on her... I think I would have been on her next day or so to show there's no hard feelings...

    Can the NC be an overplay??

    Of course!!


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