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Thread: The frustration of AA v being rejected

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    Default The frustration of AA v being rejected

    Ok, so I've just suffered a hit of aa, I was about to board a boat when I saw a 7 or 8. She looked at me, smiled, I'd just bought my ticket and in the frustration of getting the ticket I looked back at her awkwardly. I was then in the queue on to the boat and next to her, I then couldn't talk to her with mix of embarrassment and anxiety. She kept glancing back and I did...nothing! Now sat on boat away from her & it's a catamaran so it's seated.

    Now I'm hating that I did nothing, what was the worst that could happen? It wouldn't work? She could have ignored me or rebuffed me. And that would have been disappointing but a conclusion would have been reached and I think that's the difference. If you overcome AA, say just a few words them you get some form of resolution. By avoiding the issue I can only regret my missed opportunity.

    So if I get a chance on the way off the boat, I'll say something but then it's the idea of that she might be meeting her guy etc damn! So anyone who can reply quick have a good line? I'll try something otherwise and go for broke, if the opportunity presents itself.

    I'm going to be reading this forum later more. I have the ideas, I have some know how but I want to ensure that this doesn't happen again.

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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    After you've seen her looking at you, you don't need any fancy line

    Just go ask how she's doing or if she's enjoying the trip

    Go to be social, don't worry if she has a BF or not, you want to go be social, that's it. Once you say hi you can see if there's anything more, but an approach really doesn't involve all that risk

    Don't over think it, it does you more harm than good
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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    See, I already know that but for some reason my mind starts working over time and tries to tell me that it won't work or that it will end flat. I just need to forget that, just go for it and see what happens! Then at least I can take it from there and deal with things as it goes.

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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    Thats why you go by the three second rule, approach before you have time to think about it. Give yourself that rule and stick to it
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    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...h-anxiety.html

    That's a thread I wrote a couple weeks ago about how I overcame aa. Basically, it comes down to having the mentality that you talked about. Who cares what happens? What's the worst that can happen? You're kicking yourself for not going for it, I doubt you'd feel worse if you did go for it!

    As you said you were going to, just go for it after the boat trip. Since you caught her looking, you don't need anything special for an opener. Whenever I catch a girl looking at me, I just use something simple such as "Hey, how are you doing?" or "Hi, I'm KnightTurner, what's your name?". Approaches like this are on a different level than others. I think of them sort of as mild approaches. It's not cold in that you aren't completely initiating (she caught your eye first) but it's not warm in that you don't know her or have any mutual connections to each other. Because of this, you can and should go with something simple.
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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    Having gamed on the streets of London – With six years of direct street game experience which includes coaching scores of clients, helping them overcome this corrosive attitude, I feel that I am uniquely placed to offer a unique insight on this spectrum. Below I have listed a few basic rules that I recommend.

    A rich man shouldn't have to say he's rich

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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    your right mate that's a good point.

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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    A rich man shouldn't have to say he's rich.

    Talking about you d1ck doesn't make it any bigger. That's how I like to say it
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    Default Re: The frustration of AA v being rejected

    @Cody - Hilarious...as for my opinion...PUA is about becoming a more SOCIAL and OUTGOING guy...show that your not hitting on her but just being your normal, social self!

    Good luck...hope it worked out
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