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    kaisimir11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default i need help busting out of the Friend zone

    hey wats up dudes. im nt a pua just a regukar "nice" guy. I recently hooked up with this girl who's like in all my classes. So she was giving me a ton of IOIs but i was stupid and took things really slow and when i realized it i rushed it too much. so now i need some real help guys

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    Default Re: i need help busting out of the Friend zone

    Since you are a nice guy or beta man you were doomed from the start! No just kidding. But in all seriousness the first thing you should do is start reading how to be alpha. You said you started out slow and then went into wrap speed with her, well that probably scared her because it seemed you were going from one extreme to another. Try being consistent with your approach by finding middle ground and a style that is right for you. I say since you have not dated or anything the friendzone may not be existent at this point. Read some of the resources on pua like the Triangle technique, The Texting bible and how to be alpha, and apply them and see what happens. Good luck bro!

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    Default Re: i need help busting out of the Friend zone

    Yeah, its a good thing to escalate quickly, but at the right time. Obviously you did it at the wrong time, considering the right time to pick up the pace is when you start Kino Escalation. In my opinion the growth should be exponential, the more she gives or lets you get away with, the more you take and faster, however you do this with making moves, not out of the blue just rushing the relationship as a whole. The most important thing is to develop rapport by coaxing her into everything you do while making sure she's comfortable enough to move onto the next step but also not waiting for the perfect time to make every move. I think the best thing to do now is to go back to being the nice guy to show her that your still that person and your not crazy, and then slowly get more alpha about everything while trying to secure a date. Make it something casual that you both enjoy doing and have in common, just so she's comfortable but before you build rapport, build attraction until she's giving you more IOIs that usual and then start making your moves
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