Okay, so it's 3:30am and i'm writing this completely drunk out of my mind so bear with me and ignore any grammatical or spelling errors... that is, if you even give a fark. Now on to the story.
Okay so I just moved to a whole new country for college, that's Bristol in the UK and the way people do things in general here is way different from what i'm used to. I've only been here two weeks and I decided to go out to a club with a couple of friends.
We entered the club and the first thing I notice is about 80% of the people there go to my uni. Problem is, I don't really know them, I've only seen them around so i brush it off.
By the way, I don't really have a problem with aa. It may creep up once in a while but I recently learnt how to leave my farks at home.
Next thing I do is try to look for sets to open. They are basically non-existent. By this, I mean that there are female groups. Every girl was either already dancing with a guy or a group of guys whom it strongly looked like they already new personally (same social circle). The ratio of guys to girls was ridiculous! It was packed plus moving around was near impossible.
I brushed it off and decided to look harder and finally found a set. I tried to open them and this is where things really went to shit..
The music was too loud for them to hear me. Even when I tried to speak louder, it was no use. The music was basically cockblocking me. So i stood there trying to shout the opener and even moved closer and still nothing. It pissed me off. Then the girl I was closer to gave her friends a "why is this weird guy talking to me" look and moved away from me and closer to them. Same thing with 2 other sets I tried to open.
So I said fcuk it and went back to my mates and we drank ourselves silly!
I couldn't even say anything clever because she wouldn't hear it either way.
So my first question is,
"how do you deal with the music cockblocking you?"
and in general.
How do you do club game?
Second thing I realized was I didn't have any social proof. Noone there knew me and striking up conversations was impossible. Most of the people there new each other so obviously the music wasn't much of a barrier for them.
I then deduced with my drunken mind that to have the maximum amount of fun at this club, you had to already know enough people, girls especially who can introduce you to more people making the interaction less painstaking.
Back in my own country, there were always a number of people who I knew in almost every club I went to. I never really realized that this was the reason for most of what little success I had until now.
In uni, the social circle is key. Which brings me to my next questions.
"What is the best way to increase your social circle and proof in college?"
and besides that
"How do you game college girls?"
I know it's too general and I have recently finished reading, "conquer your campus" but besides what's in the book. Do you guys have any other advice or gambits?
P.S. It's killing me I went from feeling like a king in my country to a loser here . hahaha
Peace... Cheers to " Bangtober fest! "