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  1. #1
    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Newbie problem with Opener

    I have no more Approach Anxiety and I'm 6'1", muscular, and good looking. I only use direct openers in day game so far and I've had some success but I feel like I could do much better.

    The main problem is that I open a girl with something like: "Hi I think you're really cute, I just wanted to say hi." But more often than not the girl just says thanks that's really sweet. Sometimes if I persist the girl stays and gives me her number but usually not. I know I have good body language and tone of voice. It's simply calm and relaxed as if I'm talking to my sister. I just can't for the life of me get a hot girl to stay and reciprocate interest aside from:"Thanks you're cute too."

    Example:
    Me:"Hi I like the way that jacket looks on you."

    We get into a conversation about what I think of her jacket and if she should buy it or not.

    Eventually the conversation just stagnates and I feel like I'm saying almost everything. She ends up just saying:"I'm going to continue shopping, nice to meet you, bye."

    I'm just stumped. How do I reel em in and lock them without looking desperate or needy?

  2. #2
    Muldoon is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Newbie problem with Opener

    Well, I've been WAY more successful now that I'm getting 8-9 hours of sleep a night. Plenty of women I talk to show indication of interest, although most of them have boyfriends or husbands. It's weird how some women will basically give me their number without even asking and other girls that are less attractive may not be interested at all, I guess that's just women being moody. I've got plenty of dates planned, this is quite awesome.

    Bottom line: I eat like a caveman, sleep 9 hours, lift heavy weights. Works for me.

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    forestred_12 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Newbie problem with Opener

    Good thread man. Sorry its gone unreplied to, though I'm sure its been noticed. I can totally relate.

    I was on my home from the gym tonight when I saw this stunning HB walking back along the other side of the road.. in high heels and struggling with 2 full bags of grocery shopping. I walked up alongside and opened with "I bet you never though you'd be doing the shopping tonight dressed like that...." "need a hand with that.."

    Turns out she's from the Bay Area, Cali and here for a one semster study... after a bit more Fluff I say how about a coffee before you leave. She's all "hmmm" "I'm really busy with my studying blah blah blah...."

    I then go "you never know, I might just be the best guy you'll ever lose" and "so your number starts 07...."
    She was seriously on the verge... but she just wouldn't drop me her num!
    At that stage, I just kept my value and wished her goodbye..

    Anything else I could have done guys? Kept up with a more direct chat up line... "do you think I look like pinocchio (no?).. well how about you sit on my face and tell me a lie?"

    ..............or just take the rejection on the chin at that point?
    cheers!

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    forestred_12 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Newbie problem with Opener

    In reflection... this girl was definitely worth me turning back (as she stood there waiting on a friend), going back, handing her my phone with a bit of Kino and saying.. "you'll have to excuse me, but I'm a bit persistant, don't blame me though, blame the fact you're seriously good looking.. so go and type in your number and I'll be on my merry way.."

    Too much?


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