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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Why do people get bottled water instead of tap water? It's not cause there's a huge difference between the two. It's cause one of them was a challenge, and the other was right there.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    David D always said that you can be nice BUT you must not settle for that alone. You must have other aspects to you that show adventure fun mystery. And putting your needs ahead of any woman is always number one.

    I knew a girl, maybe an HB7. She liked me when i was AFC but i never saw her as a serious person. So i inadvertently became her therapist. Then i wondered why she stopped liking me. I was all mad at her and froze her out or made fun of her when i saw her. This went on for awhile and one day she ended asking me out again. I had no idea why! I was still nice but just that little extra independant streak in me was enough to ignite her interest again.
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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Nice guys are often seen as manipulative by women. Whereas bad boys just go for what they want, no matter how disrespectful their tactics, the nice guys are trying to "bribe" women by acting like Mr. Right, buying flowers and taking them to fancy dinners on the first date, while no emotional connection has been established yet, nor does the woman feel she's done anything do deserve it.

    Nice guys don't say what's truly on their minds and try to act out a certain character, whether that's conciously or unconsciously. That's why they're deemed manipulative.

    Also, the guys with low self esteem are nice guys because they don't have the balls to say what they want from a woman or ask her out on a date. They end up in the friend zone.

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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...ish-first.html

    Rather than bring up a 4 year old thread, I came up with a good explanation to this the other day.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Most girls are immature and look for beauty,firework display from guys, like the ones they see in the movies.Their mind are more on what would make their friends jealous and what would make them feel extra special,therefore the genuinely lovely guys are often excluded as these are not usually the classically popular,good looking ones.

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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    @bini... while good looks may influence a guy's personality (good looking guys always get women so they dont care about any one girl) looks alone are not what women look for. Thats an AFC coping mechanism.

    I have had many women tell me that they have met great looking guys who've shown interest. However, as soon as the guy said three words he was disqualified. Its more important to excite a women's emotions than to look good. Looking good is a plus of course but in reality, that gives you more opportunities to fail. Because if the personality isnt there, you may get girls but not quality ones (and i dont mean quality as in girls who are just good looking and nothing else lol)
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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Because nice guys are fucking boring. It's like driving a Toyota or a Renault. No funny thing about that.
    If someone asks you if you'd rather drive a BMW than a Fiat, which one would you choose? Let's just say that BMW has rear-wheel-drive, so it's way more amusing to drive.

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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    While I get what you're saying, both Toyota and Renault can come through in a pinch. The Clio Cup is one hell of a hot hatch, and that new Toyota GT 86 (sold as the Scion FR-S here in America) handles like a dream. Still, your point is made.
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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Love the FR-S!

    But other than that, Toyota is boring. Even Hyundai's are sexier (Genesis Coupe ftw!)
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    Default Re: Why don't girls go for nice guys?

    Right you are Bandit. GT-86 is their best car since Supra. It's not very fast, but it has that special something.


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