Reaction seeking is the epitome of being needy. A true man of the world with many options is not phased by one woman and her antics. You are an amazing person, with an amazing life. If she chooses to partake of that, great... if not great.
That is the key. It is really active non-reactiveness. Passive non-reactiveness is not what I am talking about.
Anyone else wanna chime in?
I'm not good as PUA Bill, but agree with him 100%... When your playing poker you've always got a high hand; with a woman your a valued person and have endless other options...