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Thread: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

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    Default Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    Not trying to sound big headed at all, but Im an attractive looking guy and usually good with women. So heres the issue:

    About a month ago my friend got dumped (I broke up with my girl around the same time) and since then this friend who is my best friend for almost 20 years started getting hooked up with different girls through mutual friends. One girl that caught his attention, they went out once on a double date with our other friend and his girl, though after the date they really didnt click. Mainly consisted of him trying to start a convo through texting, she wasnt that interested.

    Until I got involved. Being the good friend I am, and my friend knowing Im good with girls, decides to ask me to text her as him. Within minutes I had the whole convo switched around and her eating out of the palm of my hand. About 2-3 days of this go by, where I literally am texting for my friend, and already have her thinking about meeting up something that he was far from doing on his own.

    The dilemma? I think I started getting attracted to this girl from texting her for quite some time and "us" clicking. As of now, my friend still asks me for advice on what to say though I think he's starting to see me getting uncomfortable with it. I dont want to come out and admit anything to him as this girl was introduced to him through another mutual friend and would just create some drama. Today I decided to add her on a social network, which she was quick to respond, though that's all Ive done as "me".

    So what do I do?

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    So no help at all huh lol

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    I hate to sound like a douche, but I believe there is a segment in the Bro Code that deals with exactly this. I can't remember exactly, but it generally states that as long as your Bro has made moves on this girl, she's off-limits. If he has only shown interest, you're free to do what you please. Legally, that is.

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    Hmmmm 20 year friendship or a girl you havent even met.

    This must be really really hard for you.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    ^^^Right? Lol, I think I was just in a weird place considering I came out of a 3 year relationship only a couple months ago. But now that I actually think it over with my head (not the one down south) makes a lot of sense, plus the Alpha in me knows I can get get better.

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    i get that you and your mate have been friends for 20 years, but should he even deserve the girl if he doesn't know how to communicate with her, without you? seems kinda odd to be getting a girl for ur mate but each to their own (y)

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    You said you just got out of a 3 year relationship, maybe you just wanted the validation instead of the actual lay. A confidence booster.

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    Start messaging her on the social media. She will lose interest in that other guy, over time as she begins to see what he is like.

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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    You totally played games and its bitten u on the a$$. U deceived her ... BAD. Pua isnt about pretending to be Alpha .. its making yourself Alpha. By lying for your friend, ur starting everything off on a bad level.

    What if he gets mad u stole her? He can just tell her. Women do not like to be deceived. They will put up with the biggest jerk in the world but never with a liar. Also, u may use language that she will recognize as your 'friend.' What r u going to do ... keep lying?
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
    Oscar Wilde


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    Default Re: Helped Best Friend Get Girl I Might Like

    DONT DO IT MAN.

    as an alpha male, you lift others up with you, your already pretty good enough, he needs this more than you.

    as a friend let him take it. im in the same situation with you right now and i let my friend take her instead cuz he really likes her and he needs it more since hes the new guy even though i liked that girl for a long more time i had way more experience and im happy being single.


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