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Thread: Help. I am being gamed by girl who works at a restaurant

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    Default Help. I am being gamed by girl who works at a restaurant

    HB9 works at restaurant near my office. I met her while she was off work last week. Chattered her up and rolled off.

    I return this week, we hug , we chat. I say too bad she is working, otherwise we could hang out.

    She says she gets off soon.

    I ask when.

    She doesn't know.

    I tell her i'm not going to wait all night.

    I had already eaten and just ordered a drink. I also chatted up another waitress to make her jealous.

    I finish my drink and she is still working. Surprise? No.

    I go to leave and she looks sad. She says she is afraid she may never see me again. I say "why don't you ask for my number?" She says girls don't ask for numbers. I look surprised. I ask for her number. She says sure.

    She plays stupid with my phone and hands it back. I leave. I am pumped.

    I realize later the phone number is missing a digit. She is super hot and is playing the dumb blond very well. I am sure she is gaming me. Help.

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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    "She says she is afraid she may never see me again."

    Well played girl, well played. Looks like you gotta get back there and get the digit. She knows what she's doing. Subtle hard to get. Makse you chase a little bit, but in this case it's necessary to get a Number Close, unless you happen to "run" into her somewhere outside of her work. That would just be stalking. Don't facebook her and take her number off there, that's creepy too.

    Just be like hey you forgot a digit. Let her complete it and leave the restaurant. Lead the mystery to you. Just get some witty advice to say after you get the number. "You just forgot a digit because you wanted to see me again huh..." Something along those lines. Don't tell her you'll text her later. Just say thanks and walk out. You then have the power of when to text her. If she actually gives you the digit, her attraction is still somewhat there for you. If not, looks like you'll have to change up your game a little more when you go back and eat at her restaurant. Don't wait too long to text her though or she might just think you're a dick. You want her response to be, I was wondering when you were gonna text me. Not, it took you too long to text me, or even worse, a no response.

    Do NOT say "you forgot a digit because you didn't really want me to call you huh?" I guess you can throw that into conversation later as a small topic starter since you're obviously talking to her and you have her number so it doesn't sound like you're being needy.

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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    Philthy is definitely right, you have to go back if you want that digit :P haha i'm not sure if this comes across as desperate / needy but if you're confident enough to say "have a look at this crap *show her the number* and say what is this? fix it" but that depends if she can handle that heat and don't forget to show those pearly whites

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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    I'd rip her about being blonde :L little bit of a neg eg. 'hey, I know what they say about blondes but really........phone numbers have 11 digits (show her phone) '.
    Warning......has to be done correctly and playfully or you will come across as an arsehole :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    she is $hit testing you. And she wants you to chase. Everyone posted you should go back there but I would text every number from 0 through 9. I would then run the points game on her like 'blondes + phones = -1 :-p I tell yah'. Also use a neg or two to keep her in check so that your dhv remains high.
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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    Top gunning it makes a valid point. I didn't think of that lol. Just don't send it in a group message if you have an iPhone lol.

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    Default Re: Help. I am being Gamed

    while i like Topguns idea, it could be any digit from the start of the number to the end of the number, and that's alot of texts :P is it worth going to that much effort?

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    Default Re: Help. I am being gamed by girl who works at a restaurant

    Hmm after reading the posts here I agree with the gusy.

    But ya if u don't know which # is the missing #, that's a few thousand texts or so right? Good grief lol, go bak in the restaurant to eat or watever, and if u see her say hey I was gonna text ya but ur phone was missing a number. next time ill ask u for your 'numbers' since we both can't count apparently. *something like that

    Or if she's not there you'll probably get a chance to speak with a coworker of hers there. No biggie.
    But hey, I guess lesson is make sure u have it right, or u have 10 digits! Depending on where u live..
    And that's why I usually call them right away, just to check if its right. Nothin weird there, you'd do the same if ur friend just gave u their new number right?

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Help. I am being gamed by girl who works at a restaurant

    Thanks everyone. I did go back to get missing digit, although it took a fair amount of work since she wasn't there on the days I returned.

    I walked in and we exchanged greetings. Then I told her I was going to bite her.


    "Bite me, why?"


    "How many digits does your phone number have?"


    Blank stare.


    "Most people have 11 digit phone numbers, you're only has 10?"


    "No, I . . ."


    I cut her off.

    "Here's what I think. I think you forgot a digit because
    you wanted to see me again. Am I right?"


    "No, didn't do it on purpose."


    Big Smile.

    "You know what I think? I think you are a lot smarter than you look."


    We laugh, she corrects number, etc., etc..


    Anyway, thanks guys. We'll see how it goes from here.

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    Default Re: Help. I am being gamed by girl who works at a restaurant

    Nice man, good to hear hope it goes well!

    Btw interesting move on her part lol


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