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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Agreed. I like your suggestions. Further, what do you think I should focus on on our next coffee "date".

    It will most likely occur during the day -- and therefore not conducive for sex.

    I know I need to touch her more, I goofed on that. But what about subject matter of our talk, I was way too into small talk it was stupid. This is one of my sticking points that I often have fairly boring conversations with women I just met.

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Also do you think bringing up the text is a good idea? I feel like it will just bring up a bad vibe to the conversation. Do you think its necessary to explain it away as bad humor?

    And having text conversations in general? Some have suggested that my texting should be strictly in the evening and only for booty calling?

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Quote Originally Posted by boink View Post
    Also do you think bringing up the text is a good idea? I feel like it will just bring up a bad vibe to the conversation. Do you think its necessary to explain it away as bad humor?

    And having text conversations in general? Some have suggested that my texting should be strictly in the evening and only for booty calling?
    Explaining it is not necessary I think. Really only if there is like an awkward air hanging then explain it then quickly stack to something else - that usually clears tension but does risk making it more awkward.

    As for booty calling - I'd agree with that in general, though I'd suggest flat out bringing it up with her near the end of the "date" like: "so, do we just text each other when we're horny or set things up ahead of time or maybe a little of both?" keep it calm and confident

    Quote Originally Posted by boink View Post
    Agreed. I like your suggestions. Further, what do you think I should focus on on our next coffee "date".

    It will most likely occur during the day -- and therefore not conducive for sex.

    I know I need to touch her more, I goofed on that. But what about subject matter of our talk, I was way too into small talk it was stupid. This is one of my sticking points that I often have fairly boring conversations with women I just met.
    I'd say stick to this v get the sexual tone going early. Just talk about it casually as if you're discussing how many days are in the month of November.

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    Use Alpha body language and maintain the frame tgat YOU are the prize she desires (that's your dhv - A2)
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    Then just talk about sex "so what are you in to?" "How did you find the site?" "The club scene is so inefficient" "I have to ask, you're clean right? - STD free?" "Ugh, I am just not looking to date right now. But everybody has needs right" (that's the screening/qualifying - A3 - basically just having a casual conversation as if sex was no big deal so that you can both make sure you'll both be discrete, mature and are sexually compatible. (Also use body language mirroring to make it feel like there is more vibe)
    Also here are some conversation guides
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...logy-eine.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...logy-deux.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/3...versation.html

    And here is some Kino / kiss gambits
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post63332
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...s-list-em.html

    These ^ guides are of course just a few ideas to see if they click and can be incorporated into your personal game.

    The big things I'd say would be (1) set a calm, casual sexual tone early on, (2) just talk about anything or nothing for a while to build comfort (srsly, you could probably talk about the weather - I'd say avoid politics) and (3) establish how you guys will set up to meet (for sex) or if you'll just play it by ear. Since you live near each other, late night texting is a pretty viable option
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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    This reminds me of the time when I went to Vegas and approached this HB10 and totally screwed myself. After partying at a club and making out and telling people we have been married for 10 years even though we both are in our 20s I proceeded to ask her out for coffee. The look on her face was priceless, she immediately got a cab and left me hanging.

    When you encounter a DTF page or a DTF girl, you should focus on being direct. Not too direct but you get my point. I think most guys are focusing too much on comfort: "I dont want to be an a$$hole", "I want to treat her nice ... maybe carry her on a date", "I want her to be my girlfriend so I can ...". You are doing all this while the girl is thinking 'When is this guy going to F-close me?'. Funny thing is if you do not another guy will.

    How do you overcome that 'nice-guy' BS? Think of sex as a pre-req. If you dont take Trig you cannot do Calculus. If you dont produce sexual stimuli you cannot treat her like your girlfriend.
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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    To be clear, I'm not trying to girlfriend this girl. Just trying to have some easy, NSA poon every once in a while.

    I was thinking about texting her this today, as we share the same club-house with a ping-pong/foosball table (which is close to both of our apartments).

    "The humor didn't translate well in text.. I'm free Sunday for a game of ping-pong at the club-house.. bring your A-Game"


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