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    Question University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Briefly: Someone made a DTF page on facebook for my university where people anonymously fill out a survey that is then posted on the page in order to find people who are DTF. I was pleasantly surprised that I was able to actually find a cute girl who was down to meet up.

    So I met up with the nice girl earlier today and we had a decent conversation about what each of us does and whatever. She picked a table that was kinda too big to get any touching in -- an excuse, I know. And I didn't really push anything more than small talk. I think she was a bit nervous -- potentially a good thing, maybe she thought I was not going to approve. But anyway, we got up and left and really didn't get any sort of touching at all unfortunately -- slightly awkward. About 30 minutes later I texted her bringing up the fact that she told me where she lived and it was in the same apartment complex as me -- in fact it is about 1 minute walk from my apartment. Super retardedly close. I texted her something along the lines of: "Haha omg this is bad, you live wayyy too close." And she seems to have not responded. Now I'm wondering why. I'm thinking it could either be that she thinks I'm serious (as I did mention I wanted to be discrete), or she could just have had second thoughts (oh well?). Any suggestions as to how to find out if this will go anywhere? Perhaps a suggestion of what to text her maybe tomorrow or the next day? If there's any confusion about the situation I'm in feel free to ask for clarification.

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    If this was a serious DTF page that means she's down. But she might not be down after this. You should have already laid the guidelines down and been more upfront about the fucking. Basically should have known within minutes if she would fark you then and there on the table if that was socially acceptable. you're not on a date, you're both trying to get laid. You had an ioi for her to accept to meet in a DTF page! You should have just met in your car and done the business.

    Anyways

    What kind of response were you hoping for? At best you could have gotten "OMGGGGGG I know now I can sneak into your window and fark you within minutes!!!" But since we don't know what you talked about (her cats, family, or her sex drive) It's hard to gauge how comfortable she was with you.

    To be honest man that sounds like it's giving yourself a chance to stalk her, even if that's not your intention. You could have reworded it like "well since you know where I live try not hiding in the bushes and say hi if you see me." Sounds lame but to me that sounds a little better. Make it playful like she's looking for you.

    Forget explaining that text, just ignore the fact that you sent it. Try sending another text in a couple days and just ask her "DTF?" if you want the direct approach. You did meet in a DTF questionnaire or whatever. If you want an indirect, you can tell her to come to a party at your apartment. And by party it's just you. Pants party. Haha but you just gotta be witty and funny with it so she can laugh at it or get turned on by it. At any rate, if she doesn't respond to your next text move on to a new girl. She might not be interested anymore.

    And BTW where can I find this survey so I can join in on the fun too? lol

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Just for clarification, she said that she wanted to meet for coffee before anything were to go down. And that is what we did. Which is why it was hard to get sexual even slightly, we were in a public place surrounded by peers from our uni.

    May have been a bad text. May have been a bad date overall.

    You're saying that it is absolutely unsalvageable unless she for whatever reason responds "yes" to my text in a few days "DTF?"

    Surely, there is something that can be said or done when a girl is clearly looking for some d1ck and was very likely into me during our short talk. There almost always is -- especially when it was only a single text.

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Yeah, I'd say going more direct - if even just a devilish gleam in your eye - and even gamed her a bit (dhv/Screenimg). Seems like if a chick clicks yes on a DTF site it means that she's decided she is willing to be seduced, not that she's ready ro jump into bed. She still has to be gamed tho because (as a woman) she still jas more options than most guys.

    But d@m bro xD I wish my college had a DTF page
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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Yeah, I'd say going more direct - if even just a devilish gleam in your eye - and even gamed her a bit (dhv/Screenimg). Seems like if a chick clicks yes on a DTF site it means that she's decided she is willing to be seduced, not that she's ready ro jump into bed. She still has to be gamed tho because (as a woman) she still jas more options than most guys.
    Could you be more specific? How would I be more direct? How do I go about still gaming her? What would you do in my situation?

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Use Alpha body language and maintain the frame tgat YOU are the prize she desires (that's your dhv - A2)

    Then just talk about sex "so what are you in to?" "How did you find the site?" "The club scene is so inefficient" "I have to ask, you're clean right? - STD free?" "Ugh, I am just not looking to date right now. But everybody has needs right" (that's the screening/qualifying - A3 - basically just having a casual conversation as if sex was no big deal so that you can both make sure you'll both be discrete, mature and are sexually compatible. (Also use body language mirroring to make it feel like there is more vibe)

    This ^ all sets a sexual tone at the beginning so that you don't have to escalate her mentally

    Then, if you're seeming to vibe well, go for some getting-to-know-you chat (if it was me, I'd even lead in cheekily with "your life can't be all about sex tho tell me about yourself") what classes she's taking, where she's from, what she's doing next weekend, whatever. This is comfort-building (C1/C2) and really under those circumstances I'd think that once she's comfortable enough with you a simple tour of your room should be all the C3 you need before you start in on foreplay.

    I would also imagine Kino could be put off until foreplay, and initoated with simply "let's start with a massage." Then transition to making out - though it might be better to kino from the beginning but ONLY if it comes off naturally loke you are just one of those guys who touches everyone while talking.
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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Update: She responded 8 hours later with the entirely expected "Okay..". Though, that seems to be a good sign to me -- agree?

    Any ideas of how to move this forward and perhaps turn the power more into my favor -- which clearly it now isn't.

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Quote Originally Posted by boink View Post
    Update: She responded 8 hours later with the entirely expected "Okay..".
    What was she responding to? Did you go with the straight text "DTF?"
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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    She replied to my initial text. I hadn't texted her again yet.

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    Default Re: University DTF page, not sure how to handle

    Oh to the "living waay too close" thing? Hmm, I'd say wait a few hours or maybe a day, then text her something like "the other day was a really off day for me, let's grab coffee." When you text her don't reference the old text and don't say "let's grab coffee again" because then she'll expect it to be the same. Just set up another meet-up with just the explanation that "last time was wierd," which she knows.

    Then, once you're in person, you can make a joke about how the "living too close" text was meant in humor but somehow the tone and facial expression didn't come out in text (a little cocky/funny). Also here is a good guide to text game:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html
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