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Thread: Strive to be rejected.

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    Default Strive to be rejected.

    I read an interesting book today and it was called "Go For No!".
    The book told a story about a salesman who instead of seeing how many "yes's" (sales) he could get he would see how many "No's" he could accumulate.

    So instead of looking to get 5 people to say yes to a product he was selling, his goal was to get 20 people to say no. In his mind failing wasnt just a part of the initial learning process, it was an integral aspect to succeeding.

    So if you were a car salesman and you met your quota for 10 cars that month, you were more likely not to sell anymore cars because your quota had been met and you were satisfied.

    By striving to get 200 "No"s in a month, he found that he sold 2-3 times as many cars.

    I couldnt help but think of how this could apply perfectly to PUA's. Instead of trying to get 2 phone numbers in one night, you strive to get as many girls in the club/mall/street as possible to say "No".

    Obviosuly you don't literally try to get them to say "No", you'd run your game as normal but, you'd just have it in the back of your mind "If I haven't failed at least 50 times this month, then I can't succeed."

    This is just kind of a general theory I was thinking about at work today. What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Strive to be rejected.

    I like it Yorba! Seems like a good way to get out and try new/riskier gambits.
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    Default Re: Strive to be rejected.

    This is a wonderful tactic, as long as one is careful not to only strive for no's
    "My enemies are advanced, bold, intelligent and powerful. But I am evolved"
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    Default Re: Strive to be rejected.

    I think it'd be a great Mindset for new guys, It takes the sharp edge off of rejection. And seeing as though you'd be trying to meet a "quota" for "No"s, it would cut down the intimidation factor a lot. The big picture is whatever you want to achieve personally, but it's the small stuff that make up the picture. I don't see getting shot down by a girl as a failure, I only see NOT trying as a failure...even if you didn't get her number you still got the experience points lol.

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    Default Re: Strive to be rejected.

    I thought of this in terms of sexual escalation once. Like I be so sexual that she would have to turn me down because I was going too far too fast; I would be trying to turn her on so much but at the same time she's trying to be a good girl. It's like a battle to see what her "good girl" has got.

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    Default Re: Strive to be rejected.

    Interesting tactic! Could be very useful if you end up somewhere with loads of hot girls that you normally don't hit on since you believe that you have no chance. Expect the hottie to say no and don't get disappointed if she rejects you. Once one girl accept you, then itīs like a big surprise that you can take advantage from! =)


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