Situation: So Im sitting at the bar with my friend and just having a good time. HB comes up and buys drinks for her group. Me and my friend talks to her: opens, then quick nag. She returns to group. 10+ mins later she comes back to buy more but this time she comes over to me and my friend. She talks to us some more as the bartender is getting her drinks.
Is that a ioi? Is it better to open the set a few mins after she returns to her group or does that look needy and weak and just close when she is at the bar?