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    Default Talk to a girl in a coffee shop

    Have you ever gone straightly to a girl and talked to her in a cafe like starbucks coffee? This evening I went to talk to a girl in Starbucks coffee. The girl was alone, reading a book. I went over to her, and ask if she lives a happy life? She didn't understand what I said at first, then I repeated my question. She finally understood my question and answered that she lived a happy life. I asked her why, she said she didn't have anything to make her unhappy. I felt that I was quite awkward during the whole process, although I kept smiling during the whole process, I felt my smile was quite awkward/unnatural. So after she asked my second question, I threw her a word "you will see this interview after 2 days". Then I immediately pulled away and left the coffee cafe, feeling that I acted like an asshole, and it was not fun. I want to know if it were you, what would you do, what would you say, how would you think?

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    Default Re: Talk to a girl in a coffee shop

    Coffee shops are the easiest venues to open that you will ever get. Girls practically beg to be approached. All you have to do is introduce yourself and ask how her day is going.
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    Default Re: Talk to a girl in a coffee shop

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Coffee shops are the easiest venues to open that you will ever get. Girls practically beg to be approached. All you have to do is introduce yourself and ask how her day is going.
    But I felt she was busy with her study and I appeared in front of her as "an uninvited guest". It was quite intrusive.

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    Default Re: Talk to a girl in a coffee shop

    Did you expect her to sit and wait patiently for you to approach? She's gotta look busy. No girl is going to sit at a coffee shop with nothing more than a cup of coffee. She'll look lame and as if she has no life. It's all an illusion.

    When I go to the library, I pack a ton of sh*t that I don't need. Then when I sit down at a table I spread it out all over the f*cking place, making sure to take up the space in front of at least four chairs. Am I studying intently for a make-or-break business exam? Hell no, I'm playing f*cking pac-man, but they don't know that. I look like a powerhouse, and that's all that matters.
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    Default Re: Talk to a girl in a coffee shop

    Personally love this idea, as there are so many things to talk about, no competition etc. I read so much of many genres and thus far more comfortable talking to someone new here than in a club. Think I would make a far better impression on someone rather then me looking like bambi on ice on the dancefloor


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