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Thread: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

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    Default I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    When we talk to a girl, we should try to be humorous, right? But oftentimes it is not easy to be humorous. Maybe you will say, "Relax. Be natural." OK. I would relax and be natural. However, when I relax and and "be natural", I am not humorous, because in real life, I am not humorous.

    Do you expect a girl will like the real me who is not humorous, in that case,I would expect that I would "win the lottery". I mean the likelihood is slim that a girl will like me if I don't try to be humorous and just "be natural". Any ideas?

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    Default Re: humor

    look man, all behavior is learned, (that includes being humorous) you can learn to be more humorous from watching comedy, hanging out with people who are funny, and by addopting a carefree attitude. i have learned to be more humorous over time, it just takes practice and persistance. eventualy you will be "naturally" humorous. you can still be yourself and be funny, once you learn to be funny it will become more and more natural as you use it more

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    I don't think that anyone is humorous naturally,most of the time it's just an act,play of words,i mean take anyone funny for example,he doesn't just sit all day studying funny lines or jokes,you just ovbserve/listen,do stupid things,put a mask on your face(not visual mask xD).You have to be relaxed to make it look natural,because if you're not relaxed your head will be full with nervous thinking of desperation,so you just clear your mind,be drunk kind of style,don't act drunk,but feel drunk,this is what i did when i noticed at one point that i was being too nervous.

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    I learned to be spontaneously funny by hanging out with people who had that ability.
    After a little bit of time, that whole vibe starts to rub off on you & you absorb it.

    That's really the best way to build a humorous personality.

    That & by watching good comedies! (Stand ups / movies / tv shows.. etc)

    I was fortunate to have grown up in a family of funny / social people... so I learned to be outgoing AND how to inject spontaneous one liners at any moment, anywhere.

    It's all about repetition.



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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    Look into some improv classes they will help you get it down and increase your confidence with any type of set. Check out some stand-up comedy there is some pretty good stuff. Lastly like the boys are saying be around funny people. Remember that humor is great but too much and you could become the dancing monkey lets avoid that, there is a fine line between the two its your job to find it
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    it doesnt matter what you say it matters how you say it.
    I heard some guys say the most stupidest unfunny shit ever and get away with it because theyr smiling and they have that comedian tone in their voice or just cuz theyr popular.

    try getting wierd thoughts in your head and write it down.
    like yesterday i was thinking cocks are like socks, so what if i cut off 2 cocks and wear it on my feet. do that and point at both of your friends penis and theyll laugh lol.

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    Now I'm new at this but what I've found so far is that you can BE humorous and it will help, but if I'm looking at this right, you're trying to be humorous for the girl and if you have that Mindset then whenever you try to make her laugh and she doesn't, a little bit of doubt kind of creeps in. So just laugh at what you think is funny, don't try to make her laugh, and just overall don't censor yourself. When I say that, I don't mean be overtly a dick or anything, but if you find something funny and she doesn't, no biggie man. Hope this helps.

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    I agree with these people above, download some comedy and listen. look at how they do things, try to be optimistic all the time. I was just like you when i talked to girls but over last few months i just learned to let go. dont let them think she's better than you. you can make a funny joke out of everything. no matter what situation, think of that situation through a funny scenario. just imagine one. then be like "imagine if this this and that happened, damn haha" dont do it all the time. show dhv. be confident bro!! just listen to a lot of daniel tosh

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    I have a problem with texting I uploaded it to my site for help but I will upload it here please give me tips

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    Default Re: I am not humorous, so how can I be when I talk to girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by LoveLossBekoe View Post
    I have a problem with texting I uploaded it to my site for help but I will upload it here please give me tips
    check this out it should help
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...o%27s+don%27ts
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