When we talk to a girl, we should try to be humorous, right? But oftentimes it is not easy to be humorous. Maybe you will say, "Relax. Be natural." OK. I would relax and be natural. However, when I relax and and "be natural", I am not humorous, because in real life, I am not humorous.
Do you expect a girl will like the real me who is not humorous, in that case,I would expect that I would "win the lottery". I mean the likelihood is slim that a girl will like me if I don't try to be humorous and just "be natural". Any ideas?