As far as a reason to call you it is in your presentation. You display differentiating characters to make you Super as in the sense of Maslows bell curve you will be distinguished from the crowd. Every SuperStar has a differentiating principle for example Michael Jordan (sticks his tounge out), Michael Jackson (wore a glove),Elvis (wore pink),Prince (wore purple) Hugh Hefners Robes. Liken this to the examples above you have to develop your "differentiating " principle and make it intriguing enough that it creates "excitement". Woman want a leader and just my ability to confidently give her directions makes me look like a BOSS. All woman are looking for instructions and guidance she really wants you to take charge.