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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    I've found that keeping a sexual vibe about myself helps keep me out of the friend zone, because from the start women know what I want.
    100% agree. If you meet a really cool girl you see a LTR with, you might back some of that off verbally, but not physically.

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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    I think that she was sh*t testing me rather than expressing low self esteem, otherwise I wouldn't be interested. I'm still a fan of lightly teasing her on the matter, I just wasn't sure where to draw the line. I feel that the blunt approach might have shown low social awareness but, I don't want her to get away completely unscathed either. Besides, the light approach feels a little more in character (personal preference).

    Respect Cody. Too many guys take advantage of woman who have low self esteem, rather than seeing it as a turn off. One of my ex's fell into that category, and I made the mistake of not acting on it earlier. She kept seeking affirmation from me and it soon got boring. It just goes to show that people form their perceptions off how you perceive yourself. Having said that, I don't really mind when a woman says that she isn't pretty... *once*. Any more than that, it's not a sh*t test, it's plain insecurity.

    As for the rod up response... nice. Seems almost like a line to get rid of aa.

    Thanks guys, as always your advice is superb. I'll be armed to the teeth next time a woman tries that one on me!

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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    if she is truly that low self esteem then i would be nice.
    from what youve told me, she is not. she knows shes hot. Then, shes seeking for attention either because she likes compliments from as many guys she can get because she likes attention OR she has moderate self esteem and wants validation or a combination of these two or its a test to see if you will kiss her feet and say 'no no no you are soo beautiful' (very beta behaviour). Out of these 4 options, the response from an alpha should be the same. You shouldn't bow to her and give her her wanted response of kissing her feet. If she's really fishing for compliments after that every few sentences, then you have to consider if she's doing this to all guys (especially if you're texting) to get attention. If so, then shes being a real jerk and you have to be real rude and say something like 'yeah youre ugly'. This distinguishes the betas who will kiss her feet and those who wont put up with that. I remember playing something in the middle/neutral with a girl for a few months via text where I didnt gush her with compliments when she fished for them nor did I insult/agree with her. The result was nothing except for her getting a lot of attention for months and then me realizing she was fishing for compliments from a ton of guys AND that she wasn't that hot after all and was using this to boost her self esteem and seek validation. Im not sure how the girl scale differs from males but Ive learned a guy should never do that and seek validation as its beta


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