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    Default What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Hey Guys,

    I can't think of what I should have said to this, any help?

    (BTW I had previously introduced my brother to this girl)

    Girl: Oh my god, I would have never believed that he was your brother. You guys look nothing alike!

    Me: What? Really? Everyone either thinks that we are identical or that we look nothing alike. Some people have even asked if we were twins!

    Girl: Really? I would have never known.

    Me: That's probably because I inherited the good looks!

    Girl: Haha! Very funny. I inherited the good looks as well. Just joking, I'm not nice looking.

    (At this point I know that she is seeking approval and compliments. I don't want to give these too freely but, I feel it might be socially awkward not to respond to something as obvious as her statement)

    Me: I guess we're both pretty awesome then! And... not nice looking? Come on!

    ----------------------

    She is quite attractive, and she obviously knows it however, I'm not really sure how to react to something that overt. Any advice?
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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    That's definitely a sneaky little trap / trick question when a girl makes comments like that...

    For the longest time I had NO idea how to handle that situation.... but I eventually started doing a couple different things:

    1. Ignore completely & immediately change topics.

    2. Make a comment along the lines of, "Yeah, you're right, but I still think you're pretty effin' cool." (Then wink & smile at her, followed by a little laughter & playful nudge with my elbow)- to which her response is something like, "Oh shut up!! You're such a jerk / @sshole" *laughing / smacking me.

    3. Make a comment along the lines of, "Oh quit with the negative self-put down already, you bratty sympathy seeker!!" - Then using the whiny, teasing, mocking voice I'll paraphrase her comment back: "Whaa whaa whaa, I'm so ugly... nobody loves me... poor me...." etc.
    (Again, her follow up is about like the previous one).

    This definitely builds attraction & Tension because, you're calling her out for trying to set you up with the trick question, & giving her some crap about it in a fun, playful way.

    It expresses confidence, humor & true Alpha qualities.


    Try that the next time a girl attempts that little game.


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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Thanks man!

    I think that the second option is absolute gold, although the third is growing on me. I'll probably end up using the second one seen as it is more in sync with my frame. Rest assured, next opportunity I get, I'll be ready!
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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    T-Mal nailed it.

    I get sick and tired of LSE girls really fast, so if you do too it's best to call her out on her sh*t. That way it becomes a non-issue.

    My response: "-_- really? Why you gotta be like that?"

    Her: "Be like what?/What do you mean?"

    Me: "Nothing/Nevermind. *Change subject*"

    In this way she learns that what she did is not okay and it won't come up again. If she presses it, stick to your guns:

    Me: "I said nothing/I said nevermind. *Continue with subject change*"

    You can't give it to her bullsh*t. Do it once and your life is over. She wants a man with convictions, even if that means saying no to her.
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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Also- when girls pull this little stunt, I see it as them being waaaaaay over the top.

    So, the more over the top & ridiculous your response is, (if you do choose to acknowledge her) the more effective it's gonna be.

    When you really lay the teasing on thick & heavy, it sends a strong message. But ALWAYS make sure you convey it with genuine humor, & not "cockiness".
    Humor is the best shield destroyer. Period!

    It prevents you from looking like a d1ck.... AND, when you can get HER to laugh, she's gonna be putty in your hands!


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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Any girl who is truly good looking never says that. It is possibly a test and possibly one that girls in the HB6-8 category use. I think what taj mahal means by 'being over the top' is that a HB 6-8 might use it to amplify their ego. Humor truly is a good way of lowering the shield of a HB6-8. A HB 0-6 will say it honestly (she actually truly is not pretty) and a HB8-10 will simply not say it (because they are truly pretty). Yes you can ignore it, that is fine, but given the logistics a well placed compliment or 'mentor neg' works better.

    The mentor neg is when you say 'oh you are not beautiful???? Awww' as a come back - in a slightly disappointed, condescending vein - because you ARE disappointed because your standards expect a beautiful AND intelligent girl. But you are playful about it and have not gone into NC yet.

    The other way is to absolutely compliment the girl. But do it in a way that is not overbearing. 'hey, you're cute', (subtle acknowledgement of her attractive qualities without neediness or specifics), 'awww.... don't be down on yourself, I think you're pretty (i will be your needed father/lecturer figure) 'well, you have the most beautiful hair (eyes, legs, creativity, whatever - diversion from a vague general situation to a specific attractive point and one she may not have thought about), 'you seem nice to me (generally vague). You personalize it back to you or that it is a detail you have not yet come to rationalize (but she has - showing her AFC side).

    But ultimately, good looking girls do not say such things ever. Whether you ignore it or mentor it or whether she says it, it is saying the same thing: that you are above her. She has said it already and is waiting for a reply. It ultimately cannot be a true test because good looking girls do not say it. And by saying it at all gives you all the power - unless you are weak. Whether you are strong or weak will not be determined by whether you neg or compliment her but how you read where she is coming from on the spectrum. Form a strategic but natural answer. A compliment is the more powerful strategy in this situation but you must use it wisely.

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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Aha this was enlightening, always learning new things on these forums.

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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    I go with, "please put your rod down, I can see you fishing for compliments ; )"

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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    To expand on Sidewinder's response -

    "... Besides, you're obviously at least somewhat cute, because MY rod is up too."



    *Side note... this is strictly intended as HUMOR & not to be taken as an actual response. (Although, I would probably say it if The Vibe was right... because I'm just that crazy!)
    haha!



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    Default Re: What to do when she says she isn't pretty

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    To expand on Sidewinder's response -

    "... Besides, you're obviously at least somewhat cute, because MY rod is up too."



    *Side note... this is strictly intended as HUMOR & not to be taken as an actual response. (Although, I would probably say it if The Vibe was right... because I'm just that crazy!)
    haha!

    I agree, I could totally pull this statement off with my personality/game type if the vibe was right. I've found that keeping a sexual vibe about myself helps keep me out of the friend zone, because from the start women know what I want.


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