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    Default Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    So Im in college and I recognize this cute girl who I recognize from facebook pictures of mutual friends. Regretably, I know her first and last name just because I seen pictures of her with mutual friends. I was going to talk to her but I didnt know how to start it off. I thought it'd be creepy if I told her I knew her from pictures with mutual friends on Facebook. I was scared if I phrased it wrong, I would come off like a creeper who stalks girls he doesnt know on Facebook. I was thinking of just talking to her and not even mentioning the Facebook thing but I couldnt think of anything to start it off. Who the fark says 'hey how are you?' out of the blue to a stranger in a crowd. Complimenting her with like a 'I like your shoes' or some sh1t is also retarded because there were like 5-10 people standing in line between us, many of them dudes who were just standing there silently waiting to order food. It would have been to high-pressure and awkward for her since this isn't like a club or bar where I can get away with that stuff in front of other people.
    Was I right to not do anything? There was nothing that could be done.

    But thinking back, I think I may have been able to do it noncreepily if I phrased it right.
    On top of that sh1t, it usually goes nowhere from there. So many times, Ive fking introduced myself and stuff. Then it goes nowhere from there: with guys and girls, maybe Ill force a boring conversation, find out we have no common interests (I pretty much do tennis, table tennis, school, video games, working out, thats it) Then Ill run into them again, and you sense that they dont like you but I pretend to not notice them to see if theyll say Hi or anything but then theyll see u and like ignore you and then Ill say Hi and theyll just give the 'oh hey' with the uninterested face.

    It made things worse that later on in the line, theres this guy I met and introduced myself too who I was really friendly to in order to make a friend. He obviously saw me and recognized me by his body language but he didnt say sh1t to me but he talked to the guy in front of me for quite a bit and left.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    Never be afraid to approach a girl just because other people are around. (Girls like guys who are confident & bold).

    Don't try to have a conversation when you first meet her. All you need to do is flirt! Be fun & energetic. Give off a playful interesting vibe that she'll want to be part of.

    Complimenting a girl on her sense of fashion is one of the BEST ways of making an initial introduction. But don't stand around & try to talk afterwards.
    Tell her, "Wow! Those are badass shoes.. very cool!" Then give her a smile & nod of approval... and stroll off.

    This works because most guys DON'T do that, so she doesn't see you as one of the usual lame-heads that aggravate the crap out of her.
    AND.. it creates curiosity, because you said something complimentary about her outfit (which she painstakingly put together, in order to be noticed). But then you walk away??? (Curiosity, mystery, intrigue = attraction)

    Also- a girl's defense shields are down in the daytime, because most guys are afraid to approach at all! So Daytime is a great opportunity!

    Don't mention Facebook...
    Just walk up & compliment her outfit... OR.. just directly start flirting.

    One of the easiest & most successful ways of doing this is to walk towards her & enthusiastically say "Heeeeyyy You!" (with a big smile & arms reaching out for a hug.)

    I've never had a girl NOT hug me back... even if the interaction ended up not going anywhere.


    Just be totally confident & bring the right vibe... then you don't have to think about transitioning from your "opener" into something else.

    Using a direct flirty approach cuts out the awkwardness of that process, & establishes the frame you're looking for, right from the start.



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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    Maybe pick up some exciting hobbies that you can share with other people. ....video games, working out, thats it (to me that is really boring, no offense.)

    The fact that you say "that's it" is limiting yourself. Your chances of actually getting an HB is way lower because she will have to be interested in hearing you talk about tennis, table tennis, school, video games, working out, thats it. If I was a girl I wouldn't want to date you if you do only that.

    Get the picture? Be more exciting and attractive! Or at least make the girl think you are.

    If you want to be more subtle you could just add her on facebook and work on your game. But your profile needs to be attractive and look exciting. Like the girl wants to get to know who you are. But don't reveal too much because you need to have some mystery and challenge for the girl. Look through the forums and for ways to hit her up on facebook.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    OK if I complimented and just left there a good chance she'll take no thought to it and then the next time she sees me she wont say hi or anything and just act normal. Also, that is fking weird. Ive tried it and it is fking weird if you just randomly say that and then walk away. Have you even tried anything like that? All I get from the girl is a weirded out face from her as I walk away. And it IS retarded unless I can find some indirect way of doing it. This isnt a fking club. Im in line at the cafeteria. Any direct approach like that or something out of the blue will come off extremely weird and all the guys around me will think Im fking weird for hitting on her there and she will see that and even if she likes me the guys around her will make it uncomfortable for her to be too nice to me. I dont even know if you guys know what youre talking about or just spewing random advice when you have no experience or success yourself (mainly t mal). And how am I supposed to walk away when Im in line??? So I compliment her and then wait in line with awkward silence for the next 5 minutes with 5 guys in front of me? Stupidest advice ever. A month ago I wouldve taken it and just manage to develop more of a creepy reputation on campus.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    Yes....
    I actually HAVE used the "outfit compliment" (and walk away) on numerous occasions. So, if it seems weird, then you've either never done it yourself, or your body language wasn't congruent with your words.

    And, Daytime approaches are a LOT more successful with a direct approach.
    Why? Because girls aren't on "high alert" for douche-bags like they have to be at clubs, where every drunk loser decides he's gonna "talk to the hot chick".

    If you're in line with her, then skip the small talk, MAN THE F..K up, & just make a move!
    Again, day-game approaches are actually easier.... and you can absolutely be more direct, &/or more creative! (I used "Dog Crap" on a day-game approach... and it was one of the most badass experiences of all!) LOL!

    If you're too timid to approach a girl because there are other dudes nearby, then you might as well prepare yourself for a life of perpetual singularity.

    Reason #1- There are pretty much ALWAYS gonna be other dudes nearby.
    Reason #2- Girls find timid guys unattractive.. regardless of how "good looking" he may be.

    You can take my advice or not... That's totally up to you. All I'm doing is offering suggestions for something you asked about.

    Also- There's nothing "creepy" about approaching & flirting with an attractive girl. That's what guys do!
    But it's the confident, interesting, playful ones who have the success.



    Trust me, you CAN do it! It's only a little intimidating the first time you go for it.
    After that, you realize how much FUN it is to walk up to the hottest girls & start getting their attention, while all the other guys are scared sh!tless.

    We're here to help you brotha!
    & we'll be as direct & straight forward as necessary.

    If you're still unsure about my advice; I totally understand that. But do yourself a favor & do some extra research. You'll discover that what I'm telling you is totally in line with the "top gurus" out there. (I just happen to use more original approaches, because canned-material rarely fits my personality.)



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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    Peel,

    1. Quit your f*cking b*tching.
    2. Quit making f*cking excuses.
    3. Show some f*cking respect.

    On top of that sh1t, it usually goes nowhere from there. So many times, Ive fking introduced myself and stuff. Then it goes nowhere from there: with guys and girls, maybe Ill force a boring conversation, find out we have no common interests (I pretty much do tennis, table tennis, school, video games, working out, thats it)

    Listen to yourself. Tell me, which is more likely: Everyone else being the problem, or you? It's you. None of your sh*t works because you don't have the self-esteem to back it up. You don't believe in yourself, so why should anyone else?

    Who the fark says 'hey how are you?' out of the blue to a stranger in a crowd.

    I do.

    Complimenting her with like a 'I like your shoes' or some sh1t is also retarded because there were like 5-10 people standing in line between us, many of them dudes who were just standing there silently waiting to order food.It would have been to high-pressure and awkward for her since this isn't like a club or bar where I can get away with that stuff in front of other people.

    Who the f*ck cares?

    It's your mentality that's f*cked up, and until you fix that you won't be going anywhere fast.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    I'm just going to sit back and laugh at this thread, advice is allready given by T-mal. So its just entertainment now.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    OK alright sorry for that. Maybe you guys are right, But why would u just compliment and run away. What if you never see her again. I think thats an excuse for cowards

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    ohhh shit you just fucked yourself now, bad question
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Recognized this girl from Facebook, how do I approach?

    It's cool. Nbd.

    The compliment is the opener. Without following up you're right. It makes no sense other than as a practice to get over aa, so right after the opener you go into building attraction. Open, Attract, rapport, Seduce. That's the daygame blueprint.
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