So Im in college and I recognize this cute girl who I recognize from facebook pictures of mutual friends. Regretably, I know her first and last name just because I seen pictures of her with mutual friends. I was going to talk to her but I didnt know how to start it off. I thought it'd be creepy if I told her I knew her from pictures with mutual friends on Facebook. I was scared if I phrased it wrong, I would come off like a creeper who stalks girls he doesnt know on Facebook. I was thinking of just talking to her and not even mentioning the Facebook thing but I couldnt think of anything to start it off. Who the fark says 'hey how are you?' out of the blue to a stranger in a crowd. Complimenting her with like a 'I like your shoes' or some sh1t is also retarded because there were like 5-10 people standing in line between us, many of them dudes who were just standing there silently waiting to order food. It would have been to high-pressure and awkward for her since this isn't like a club or bar where I can get away with that stuff in front of other people.
Was I right to not do anything? There was nothing that could be done.
But thinking back, I think I may have been able to do it noncreepily if I phrased it right.
On top of that sh1t, it usually goes nowhere from there. So many times, Ive fking introduced myself and stuff. Then it goes nowhere from there: with guys and girls, maybe Ill force a boring conversation, find out we have no common interests (I pretty much do tennis, table tennis, school, video games, working out, thats it) Then Ill run into them again, and you sense that they dont like you but I pretend to not notice them to see if theyll say Hi or anything but then theyll see u and like ignore you and then Ill say Hi and theyll just give the 'oh hey' with the uninterested face.
It made things worse that later on in the line, theres this guy I met and introduced myself too who I was really friendly to in order to make a friend. He obviously saw me and recognized me by his body language but he didnt say sh1t to me but he talked to the guy in front of me for quite a bit and left.